The dead is punished because of the lamentation of the living. Upon this 'A'isha said: May Allah have mercy upon the father of 'Abd al-Rahman (Ibn 'Umar). He did not tell a lie, but he forgot or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ happened to pass by a (dead) Jewess who was being lamented. Upon this he said: They weep over her and she is being punished in the grave.  

عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

, when she was told that Ibn 'Umar said that the deceased is punished due to the weeping of the living for him, 'Aishah said: "May Allah forgive Abu 'Abdur-Rahman; he is not lying, but he has forgotten or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah passed by a (deceased) Jewish woman for whom people were weeping and he said: 'They are weeping for her and she is being punished."'  

عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنْ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ  

Amrah informed him that she heard Aishah, while it was being mentioned to her that Ibn Umar had said that the deceased would be punished for the crying of the living (over him). So Aishah said: 'May Allah forgive Abu Abdur-Rahman. He has not lied, but he is mistaken in the understanding. Rather, the Messenger of Allah passed by a Jewish woman who was being cried over, so he said: 'They are crying over her and she is being punished in her grave.'"  

عَائِشَةُ غَفَرَ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr from his father that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman told him that she had heard A'isha, the umm al-muminin, say (when it was mentioned to her that Abdullah ibn Umar used to say, "The dead are tormented by the weeping of the living"), "May Allah forgive Abu Abd ar-Rahman. Of course he has not lied, but he has forgotten, or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by a jewish woman whose family were crying over her and he said, 'You are crying over her, and she is being tormented in her grave. ' "  

فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ بِيَهُودِيَّةٍ يَبْكِي عَلَيْهَا أَهْلُهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّكُمْ لَتَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by a grave and said, "Verily, the occupant of this grave is being punished now because of the weeping of his family over him." Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "May Allah forgive Abu Abdur Rahman. Indeed, does not Allah say, 'And no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another'" (Surah Al Anaam 164). The Messenger of Allah ﷺ only said that this person is being punished now while his family weeps over him.  

مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بِقَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ الْآنَ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ غَفَرَ اللهُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ إِنَّهُ وَهِلَ إِنَّ اللهَ تَعَالَى يَقُولُ {وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَأُخْرَى} [الأنعام 164] إِنَّمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ الْآنَ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ  

, when she was told that Ibn 'Umar said that the deceased is punished due to the weeping of the living for him, 'Aishah said: "May Allah forgive Abu 'Abdur-Rahman; he is not lying, but he has forgotten or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah passed by a (deceased) Jewish woman for whom people were weeping and he said: 'They are weeping for her and she is being punished."' (Using translation from Nasāʾī 1856)  

عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللهُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

[Machine] "Do not cry for them, as weeping of the living is a punishment for the dead." Umrah said, "So I asked Aisha, and she said, 'May Allah have mercy on him, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said this to a Jewess and her family who were weeping for her: 'Indeed, they are weeping, and indeed, she will be punished in her grave.'"  

لَهُمْ لَا تَبْكُوا فَإِنَّ بُكَاءَ الْحَيِّ عَذَابٌ لِلْمَيِّتِ قَالَتْ عَمْرَةُ فَسَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ يَرْحَمُهُ اللَّهُ إِنَّمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لِيَهُودِيَّةٍ وَأَهْلُهَا يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا «» إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا «»  

The dead is punished because of the lamentation of the living. Upon this 'A'isha said: May Allah have mercy upon the father of 'Abd al-Rahman (Ibn 'Umar). He did not tell a lie, but he forgot or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ happened to pass by a (dead) Jewess who was being lamented. Upon this he said: They weep over her and she is being punished in the grave. (Using translation from Muslim 932c)  

عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللهُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ «إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ»  

[Machine] "Do not cry for them, for the crying of the living is a punishment for the dead." And he said about Umrah, "So I asked Aisha about that, and she said, 'May Allah have mercy on him, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ only said that to a Jewish woman and her people as they were crying over her, and indeed, she was being punished in her grave."  

لَهُمْ لَا تَبْكُوا عَلَيْهِ فَإِنَّ بُكَاءَ الْحِيِّ عَذَابٌ لِلْمَيِّتِ وَقَالَ عَنْ عَمْرَةَ فَسَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَتْ يَرْحَمُهُ اللهُ إِنَّمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لِيَهُودِيَّةٍ وَأَهْلُهَا يَبْكُونَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا