(the wife of the Prophet) Once Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by (the grave of) a Jewess whose relatives were weeping over her. He said, "They are weeping over her and she is being tortured in her grave."  

أَنَّهَا سَمِعَتْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَتْ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يَبْكِي عَلَيْهَا أَهْلُهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr from his father that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman told him that she had heard A'isha, the umm al-muminin, say (when it was mentioned to her that Abdullah ibn Umar used to say, "The dead are tormented by the weeping of the living"), "May Allah forgive Abu Abd ar-Rahman. Of course he has not lied, but he has forgotten, or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by a jewish woman whose family were crying over her and he said, 'You are crying over her, and she is being tormented in her grave. ' "  

فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ بِيَهُودِيَّةٍ يَبْكِي عَلَيْهَا أَهْلُهَا فَقَالَ إِنَّكُمْ لَتَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The deceased is punished by the crying of his family upon him." She (Aisha, the wife of the Prophet) said, "May Allah have mercy on Umar and Ibn Umar. By Allah, they are not liars, nor falsifiers, nor exaggerators. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said this about a man from the Jews as he passed by his family while they were crying over him. He (the Prophet) said, 'They cry over him, but Allah punishes him in his grave.'"  

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ الْمَيِّتُ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَتْ يَرْحَمُ اللهُ عُمَرَ وَابْنَ عُمَرَ فَوَاللهِ مَا هُمَا بِكَاذِبَيْنِ وَلَا مُكَذَّبَيْنِ وَلَا مُتَزَيِّدَيْنِ إِنَّمَا قَالَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فِي رَجُلٍ مِنَ الْيَهُودِ وَمَرَّ بِأَهْلِهِ وَهُمْ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ وَإِنَّ اللهَ ﷻ لَيُعَذِّبُهُ فِي قَبْرِهِ  

, when she was told that Ibn 'Umar said that the deceased is punished due to the weeping of the living for him, 'Aishah said: "May Allah forgive Abu 'Abdur-Rahman; he is not lying, but he has forgotten or made a mistake. The Messenger of Allah passed by a (deceased) Jewish woman for whom people were weeping and he said: 'They are weeping for her and she is being punished."' (Using translation from Nasāʾī 1856)   

أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَيِّ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى يَهُودِيَّةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ «» إِنَّهُمْ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا «»  

[Machine] "Do not cry for them, as weeping of the living is a punishment for the dead." Umrah said, "So I asked Aisha, and she said, 'May Allah have mercy on him, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said this to a Jewess and her family who were weeping for her: 'Indeed, they are weeping, and indeed, she will be punished in her grave.'"  

لَهُمْ لَا تَبْكُوا فَإِنَّ بُكَاءَ الْحَيِّ عَذَابٌ لِلْمَيِّتِ قَالَتْ عَمْرَةُ فَسَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ يَرْحَمُهُ اللَّهُ إِنَّمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لِيَهُودِيَّةٍ وَأَهْلُهَا يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا «» إِنَّهُمْ لَيَبْكُونَ وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا «»