[AI] Hasan ibn Hasan sent to him to ask for his daughter's hand in marriage, so he said to him: Tell him to meet me at nightfall. He said: He met him, and al-Miswar praised Allah and extolled Him, and said: As for what follows, by Allah, there is no lineage, bond, or marriage tie more beloved to me than your bond and your marriage tie. But the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Fatimah is a part of me; what constricts her constricts me, and what gladdens her gladdens me. And lineages on the Day of Resurrection will be cut off except my lineage, my bond, and my marriage tie." And you have her daughter with you, and if I were to marry you to my daughter, that would distress her. He then left, accepting his excuse.

أَنَّهُ بَعَثَ إِلَيْهِ حَسَنُ بْنُ حَسَنٍ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَهُ، فَقَالَ لَهُ: قُلْ لَهُ فَلْيَلْقَنِي فِي الْعَتَمَةِ. قَالَ: فَلَقِيَهُ، فَحَمِدَ الْمِسْوَرُ اللهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ، وَقَالَ: أَمَّا بَعْدُ، وَاللهِ مَا مِنْ نَسَبٍ وَلَا سَبَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ سَبَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ، وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ: «فَاطِمَةُ مُضْغَةٌ مِنِّي، يَقْبِضُنِي مَا قَبَضَهَا وَيَبْسُطُنِي مَا بَسَطَهَا، وَإِنَّ الْأَنْسَابَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ تَنْقَطِعُ غَيْرَ نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي وَصِهْرِي». وَعِنْدَكَ ابْنَتُهَا، وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ لَقَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ. قَالَ: فَانْطَلَقَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ.

[AI] Al-Miswar said: Hasan ibn Hasan sent to al-Miswar to ask for a daughter of his in marriage. He said to him, "Meet me at nightfall." So he met him, and al-Miswar praised Allah ﷻ and said, "There is no tie, lineage, or marriage relation more beloved to me than your lineage and your marriage relation, but the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Fatimah is a part of me; what pleases her pleases me, and what hurts her hurts me. And on the Day of Resurrection, lineages and ties will be cut off except my lineage and my tie." And her daughter is with you, and if I were to marry her to you, that would hurt her." So he left, accepting his excuse.

قَالَ: بَعَثَ حَسَنُ بْنُ حَسَنٍ إِلَى الْمِسْوَرِ يَخْطُبُ بِنْتًا لَهُ، قَالَ لَهُ: تُوَافِينِي فِي الْعَتَمَةِ. فَلَقِيَهُ، فَحَمِدَ اللهَ الْمِسْوَرُ، فَقَالَ: مَا مِنْ سَبَبٍ وَلَا نَسَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَسَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ، وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ: «فَاطِمَةُ شُجْنَةٌ مِنِّي، يَبْسُطُنِي مَا بَسَطَهَا، وَيَقْبِضُنِي مَا قَبَضَهَا، وَإِنَّهُ يَنْقَطِعُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الْأَنْسَابُ وَالْأَسْبَابُ إِلَّا نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي». وَتَحْتَكَ ابْنَتُهَا، وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ قَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ. فَذَهَبَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ.

[Machine] "Tell him to give me what he owes me at the mentioned time, so I can meet him and praise God for the completed transaction. Then say there is no lineage, lineage-relative, or in-law that I love more than your lineage and your in-law. However, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'Fatimah is a part of me, whoever pleases her, pleases me, and whoever displeases her, displeases me. Surely, on the Day of Resurrection all ties of kinship will be cut off, except for my lineage and my ties of kinship.' And below you is his daughter, even if I were to marry her to you, she would still be his possession. This is my final excuse to him."

قُلْ لَّهُ يُوَافِينِي فِي وَقْتٍ قَدْ ذَكَرَهُ فَلَقِيَهُ فَحَمِدَ اللهَ الْمِسْوَرُ وَقَالَ مَا مِنْ سَبَبٍ وَلَا نَسَبٍ وَلَا صِهْرٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَسَبِكُمْ وَصِهْرِكُمْ وَلَكِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «فَاطِمَةُ شُجْنَةٌ مِنِّي يَبْسُطُنِي مَا يَبْسُطُهَا وَيَقْبِضُنِي مَا يَقْبِضُهَا وَإِنَّهُ يُقْطَعُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ الْأَنْسَابُ إِلَّا نَسَبِي وَسَبَبِي» وَتَحْتَكَ ابْنَتُهَا وَلَوْ زَوَّجْتُكَ قَبَضَهَا ذَلِكَ فَذَهَبَ عَاذِرًا لَهُ