11. Book of Marriage

١١۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ

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11.5 [Machine] The license to look at a woman during the engagement.

١١۔٥ بَابُ الرُّخْصَةِ فِي النَّظَرِ إِلَى الْمَرْأَةِ عِنْدَ الْخِطْبَةِ

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[Machine] His messenger ﷺ said to him, "Go and look at her, as it is more appropriate for reconciliation to take place between you."  

الدارمي:٢٢١٨ – أَخْبَرَنَا قَبِيصَةُ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ عَاصِمٍ الْأَحْوَلِ عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ عَنْ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ أَنَّهُ خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَقَالَ

لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «اذْهَبْ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا»