11. Book of Marriage

١١۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ

11.31 [Machine] The man sees a woman and is afraid for himself.

١١۔٣١ بَابُ الرَّجُلِ يَرَى الْمَرْأَةَ فَيَخَافُ عَلَى نَفْسِهِ

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[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ saw a woman who impressed him, so he went to Sawdah while she was making perfume and had women with her. He asked them to leave him alone, fulfilled his need and then said, "If any man sees a woman who impresses him, let him go to his wife, for she has the same qualities as the other woman."  

الدارمي:٢٢٦١أَخْبَرَنَا قَبِيصَةُ أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ حَلَّامٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ

رَأَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ امْرَأَةً فَأَعْجَبَتْهُ فَأَتَى سَوْدَةَ وَهِيَ تَصْنَعُ طِيبًا وَعِنْدَهَا نِسَاءٌ فَأَخْلَيْنَهُ فَقَضَى حَاجَتَهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ «أَيُّمَا رَجُلٍ رَأَى امْرَأَةً تُعْجِبُهُ فَلْيَقُمْ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ فَإِنَّ مَعَهَا مِثْلَ الَّذِي مَعَهَا»