11. Book of Marriage

١١۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ

11.27 [Machine] Residence with Thayyib and Bakr when building with them

١١۔٢٧ بَابُ الْإِقَامَةِ عِنْدَ الثَّيِّبِ وَالْبِكْرِ إِذَا بَنَى بِهِمَا

darimi:2255Yaʿlá > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq > Ayyūb > Abū Qilābah > Anas b. Mālik

that the Messenger of Allah said: “Three days for a previously-married woman and seven days for a virgin.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1916)   

الدارمي:٢٢٥٥أَخْبَرَنَا يَعْلَى حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ عَنْ أَبِي قِلَابَةَ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لِلْبِكْرِ سَبْعٌ وَلِلثَّيِّبِ ثَلَاثٌ»  

darimi:2256ʿAbdullāh b. Muḥammad b. Abū Shaybah > Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd > Sufyān > Muḥammad b. Abū Bakr > ʿAbd al-Malik b. Abū Bakr b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Ḥārith b. Hishām from his father > Um Salamah

When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ married Umm Salamah, he stayed with her three night, and said: Your people (i.e. clan) are not being humbled for you in my estimation. If you wish I shall stay with you seven nights; and if I stay with you seven nights, I shall stay with my other wives seven nights. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2122)  

الدارمي:٢٢٥٦أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ لَمَّا تَزَوَّجَ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ أَقَامَ عِنْدَهَا ثَلَاثًا وَقَالَ «إِنَّهُ لَيْسَ بِكِ عَلَى أَهْلِكِ هَوَانٌ إِنْ شِئْتِ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ وَإِنْ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ سَبَّعْتُ لِسَائِرِ نِسَائِي»