My mother came to me during the lifetime of Messenger of Allah ﷺ and she was a pagan. I said to Allah's Apostle (seeking his verdict), "My mother has come to me and she desires to receive a reward from me, shall I keep good relations with her?" The Prophet ﷺ said, "Yes, keep good relation with her. "  

عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ؓ قَالَتْ قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ أُمِّي وَهْىَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَاسْتَفْتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قُلْتُ {إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ} وَهْىَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُ أُمِّي قَالَ نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّكِ  

My mother came to me – and she was a polytheist during the period of the peace treaty between Quraysh with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ – along with her father. Then I consulted the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ, my mother has come to me and she is keen, shall I keep good relation with her?" He said, "Yes, keep good relation with her."  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ أُمِّي وَهْىَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ إِذْ عَاهَدُوا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَمُدَّتِهِمْ مَعَ أَبِيهَا، فَاسْتَفْتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ وَهْىَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا قَالَ نَعَمْ صِلِيهَا  

"My mother who was a Mushrikah (pagan, etc.), came with her father during the period of peace pact between the Muslims and the Quraish infidels. I went to seek the advice of the Prophet ﷺ saying, "My mother has arrived and she is hoping (for my favor)." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Yes, be good to your mother."  

قَدِمَتْ أُمِّي وَهْىَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ وَمُدَّتِهِمْ إِذْ عَاهَدُوا النَّبِيَّ ﷺ مَعَ أَبِيهَا فَاسْتَفْتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ وَهْىَ رَاغِبَةٌ {أَفَأَصِلُهَا} قَالَ نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّكِ  

My mother who was a polytheist came to me when he (the Holy Prophet) entered into treaty with, the Quraish (of Mecca). I inquired from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying: Messenger of Allah, there has come to me my mother and she is inclined; should I (in this state of her mind) show her kindness? He said: Yes, treat her kindly.  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ إِذْ عَاهَدَهُمْ فَاسْتَفْتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ أُمِّي وَهْىَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُ أُمِّي قَالَ نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّكِ  

Asma‘ said My mother came to me seeking some act of kindness from me during the treaty of the Quraish (at Hudaibiyyah). While she hated Islam and she was a polytheist. I said Messenger of Allah ﷺ, my mother has come to me while she hates Islam and she is a disbeliever. May I do an act of kindness to her? He replied Yes, do an act of kindness to her.  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ أُمِّي رَاغِبَةً فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ وَهِيَ رَاغِمَةٌ مُشْرِكَةٌ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ عَلَىَّ وَهِيَ رَاغِمَةٌ مُشْرِكَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا قَالَ نَعَمْ فَصِلِي أُمَّكِ  

[Machine] My mother came to me during the period of Quraysh as a polytheist and she was in need. So I asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my mother has come to me while she is a polytheist and in need. Should I maintain ties with her?" He replied, "Yes, maintain ties with your mother."  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي فِي مُدَّةِ قُرَيْشٍ مُشْرِكَةً وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ يَعْنِي مُحْتَاجَةٌ فَسَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ صِلِي أُمَّكِ  

[Machine] My mother came to me while she was a polytheist during the era of Quraysh, when they made a treaty. So, I went to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my mother has come and she desires something. Should I fulfill her request?" He replied, "Yes, fulfill your mother's request."  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ إِذْ عَاهَدُوا فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّكِ  

[Machine] Abdullah ibn Muslimah al-Qa'nabi narrated to us that his father told him, from Hisham ibn Urwah, from his father, from Asma bint Abi Bakr who said: My mother came to me while she was still a polytheist during the time of the Quraysh when they made a treaty with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and included her in it. So, I asked the Prophet ﷺ , "O Messenger of Allah, my mother came to me and she desires to maintain ties with her, should I do so?" He said, "Yes, maintain ties with your mother."  

ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ الْقَعْنَبِيُّ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ قَالَتْ قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ إِذْ عَاهَدُوا رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَمُدَّتَهُمْ فَاسْتَفْتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ «نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمَّكِ»  

[Machine] "My mother came to me while she was desiring and still a polytheist. So I asked, 'O Messenger of Allah, my mother has come to me while she is desiring and still a polytheist. Should I maintain ties with her?' The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , said, 'Yes, maintain ties with her.'"  

قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ مُشْرِكَةٌ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ مُشْرِكَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «صِلِيهَا»  

[Machine] My mother came to me during the time of Quraysh while she was still a polytheist. They made a pact with the Prophet ﷺ during their time. I asked the Prophet ﷺ saying, "O Messenger of Allah, my mother came to me while she still desires the polytheistic ways. Should I maintain ties with her?" He replied, "Yes, maintain ties with your mother."  

قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ أُمِّي فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ إِذْ عَاهَدُوا النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فِي مُدَّتِهِمْ قَالَتْ فَاسْتَفْتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ «نَعَمْ فَصِلِي أُمَّكِ»  

[Machine] My mother came to me while she was a polytheist during the time of the Quraysh and their alliance with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . So I said, "O Messenger of Allah, my mother has come to me and she desires to visit me. Shall I maintain ties with her?" He replied, "Yes, maintain ties with your mother."  

قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ فِي عَهْدِ قُرَيْشٍ وَمُدَّتِهِمُ الَّذِي عَاهَدُوا رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَدِمَتْ عَلِيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ أَفَأَصِلُهَا؟ قَالَ «نَعَمْ صِلِي أُمُّكِ»