[Machine] To me, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I have been to you like Abu Zar'in father to Umm Zar'in." Then he started narrating the Hadith of Umm Zar'in and her companions. One of them said, "My husband is Ayayaa Tabaaqaa, every sickness has a cure except for his stubbornness or foolishness or when he combines them all." Another said, "My husband is the meat of a skinny camel in a rough and steep mountain, he is neither fat nor easy to move." Another said, "My husband is Al-Asannaaq, if I remain silent, he divorces me, and if I speak, he suspends me." Another said, "My husband is someone who becomes restless when he drinks, and when he sleeps, he snores. He doesn't insert his hand in the pot, but still knows what's boiling." Another said, "My husband's news is incomplete, I fear that I won't complete it." Urwah said to her, "These are five women complaining." Another said, "My husband is a free man, like the night of Tihama. He is not hot, nor cold, nor afraid." Another said, "When he enters, he roars, and when he leaves, he becomes a lion. He doesn't ask about his properties." Another said, "My husband's scent is the scent of thyme and musk. I smell it more than others smell it." Another said, "My husband is tall and his hairs are long, he has a great pile of ashes. Our house is close to the marketplace." Another said, "My husband is Abu Malik, and who is Abu Malik? He is a man with many camels, but few blessed ones. When they hear the sound of female singers, they know it's them." Another said, "My husband is Abu Zar' and who is Abu Zar'? He is a man from noble lineage, with ears and body full of fat. I managed to deceive him, so I deceived him to get pregnant. I am the daughter of Abu Zar', and who is the daughter of Abu Zar'? Her clothes are filled, and her cloak is small. She is the best among women, but her neighbors hate her. Her father and mother obey her. She is the servant of Abu Zar', and who is the servant of Abu Zar'? She never spreads our secrets, nor spoils our reputation, nor misbehaves in our house. Abu Zar' came to me when I was in labor, and he pat me until he took me to Sahil, Taee and Dayis. I am with him, I drink, and I relax. In the morning, when I wake up, I say that I am not ugly. Abu Zar' left me, and the female camels were in labor. He saw a woman with two sons playing under her, with pomegranates on both sides. Abu Zar' married her, and divorced me. After that, I married a young man, who rode a fast horse and carried a piercing spear. He pleased me and provided me with a rich gift. He came to me on every occasion as a husband should. He said to me, 'I am your husband, and you are my wife. If I gathered everything from him, I would put it in a smaller vessel than the vessels of Abu Zar', and it wouldn't fill it.' Aisha said, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, 'So I have been to you like Abu Zar'in father to Umm Zar'in.'"
لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «كُنْتُ لَكِ كَأَبِي زَرْعٍ لِأُمِّ زَرْعٍ» ثُمَّ أَنْشَأَ يُحَدِّثُ بِحَدِيثِ أُمِّ زَرْعٍ وَصَوَاحِبِهَا قَالَ اجْتَمَعَ إِحْدَى عَشْرَةَ امْرَأَةً فَتَعَاهَدْنَ وَتَعَاقَدْنَ أَنْ يَنْعِتْنَ أَزْوَاجَهُنَّ وَيَصْدُقْنَ فَقَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ زَوْجِي عَيَايَاءُ طَبَاقَاءُ كُلُّ دَاءٍ لَهُ دَاءٌ شَجَّكِ أَوْ فَلَّكِ أَوْ جَمَعَ كُلًّا لَكِ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي لَحْمُ جَمَلٍ غَثٍّ بِجَبَلٍ وَعْرٍ لَا سَمِينٍ فَيُرْتَقَى إِلَيْهِ وَلَا سَهْلٍ فَيُنْتَقَلُ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي الْعَشَنَّقُ إِنْ أَسْكُتْ أُطَلَّقْ وَإِنْ أَنْطِقْ أُعَلَّقْ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي إِذَا شَرِبَ اشْتَفَّ وَإِذَا رَقَدَ الْتَفَّ وَلَا يُولِجُ الْكَفَّ فَيَعْلَمُ الْبَثَّ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي لَا أُتِمُّ خَبَرَهُ أَخْشَى أَنْ لَا أَذَرَهُ قَالَ لَهُ عُرْوَةُ هَؤُلَاءِ خَمْسَةٌ يَشْكُونَ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي حُرٌّ كَلَيْلِ تِهَامَةَ لَا حَرٌّ وَلَا بَارِدٌ وَلَا مَخَافَةَ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي إِذَا دَخَلَ فَهِدَ وَإِذَا خَرَجَ أَسِدَ وَلَا يَسْأَلُ عَمَّا عَهِدَ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي الرِّيحُ رِيحُ زَرْنَبٍ وَالْمَسُّ مَسُّ أَرْنَبٍ أَغْلِبُهُ وَالنَّاسَ يَغْلِبُ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي رُفَيْعُ الْعِمَادِ طَوِيلُ النِّجَادِ عَظِيمُ الرَّمَادِ قَرِيبُ الْبَيْتِ مِنَ النَّادِ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي أَبُو مَالِكٍ وَمَا أَبُو مَالِكٍ؟ ذُو إِبِلٍ كَثِيرَةِ الْمَسَالِكِ قَلِيلَةِ الْمَبَارِكِ إِذَا سَمِعْنَ صَوْتَ الْمَزَاهِرِ أَيْقَنَّ أَنَّهُنَّ هَوَالِكُ قَالَتِ الْأُخْرَى زَوْجِي أَبُو زَرْعٍ وَمَا أَبُو زَرْعٍ؟ أَنَاسَ مِنْ حُلِيٍّ أُذُنَيَّ وَمَلَأَ مِنْ شَحْمٍ عَضُدَيَّ وَبَجَحَ نَفْسِي فَبَجِحْتُ إِلَيْهِ ابْنُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ وَمَا ابْنُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ؟ مَضْجَعُهُ كَمَسَلِّ الشَّطْبَةِ وَيُشْبِعُهُ ذِرَاعُ الْجَفْرَةِ بِنْتُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ وَمَا بِنْتُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ؟ مِلْءُ كِسَائِهَا وَصِغَرُ رِدَائِهَا وَخَيْرُ نِسَائِهَا وَغَيْظُ جَارَاتِهَا وَطَوْعُ أَبِيهَا وَطَوْعُ أُمِّهَا خَادِمُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ وَمَا خَادِمُ أَبِي زَرْعٍ؟ لَا تَبُثُّ حَدِيثَنَا تَبْثِيثًا وَلَا تُفْسِدُ مِيرَتَنَا تَنْقِيثًا وَلَا تَعَشَّى بَيْتَنَا تَعْشِيشًا أَتَانِي أَبُو زَرْعٍ وَأَنَا فِي شِقٍّ فَبَلَحَنِي فَذَهَبَ بِي إِلَى أَهْلِ صَهِيلٍ وَأَطِيطٍ وَدَائِسٍ وَمُنَقٍّ فَأَنَا عِنْدَهُ أَشْرَبُ وَأَتَقَنَّحُ وَأَرْقُدُ فَأَتَصَبَّحُ وَأَقُولُ فَلَا أُقَبَّحُ خَرَجَ مِنْ عِنْدِي أَبُو زَرْعٍ وَالْأَوْطَابُ تُمْخَضُ فَأَبْصَرَ امْرَأَةً لَهَا ابْنَانِ كَالْفَهْدَيْنِ يَلْعَبَانِ مِنْ تَحْتِهَا بِرُمَّانَتَيْنِ فَنَكَحَهَا أَبُو زَرْعٍ وَطَلَّقَنِي فَنَكَحْتُ بَعْدَهُ شَابًّا سَرِيًّا رَكِبَ فَرَسًا شَرِيًّا وَأَخَذَ رُمْحًا خَطِّيًّا وَأَرَاحَ عَلَى بِنْتِي نَعَمًا ثَرِيًّا وَأَتَانِي فِي كُلِّ سَائِمَةٍ زَوْجًا فَقَالَ كُلِي وَمِيرِي أَهْلَكِ فَلَوْ جَمَعْتُ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ أَصَبْتُهُ مِنْهُ فَجَعَلْتُهُ فِي أَصْغَرِ وِعَاءٍ مِنْ أَوْعِيَةِ أَبِي زَرْعٍ مَا مَلَأَهُ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «فَكُنْتُ لَكِ كَأَبِي زَرْعٍ لِأُمِّ زَرْعٍ»