عَكَّافُ بْنُ وَدَاعَةَ الْهِلَالِيُّ
[Machine] Akaf ibn Wada'ah al-Hilali came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to him, "O Akaf, do you have a wife?" He said, "No." He said, "Do you have a concubine?" He said, "No." He said, "And you are healthy and capable?" He said, "Yes, praise be to Allah." He said, "So, you are then one of the brothers of the devils. Either you are from the monks of the Christians, so you are one of them, or you are from us, so act as we act, for verily, from our Sunnah is marriage. The worst of you in celibacy is the worst of your deaths. Do you practice what Satan has in himself? I have not found any weapon more effective against the righteous among men and women than those who are not married. They are the purified and the innocent from adultery. Woe to you, O Akaf! Verily, they are the companions of Dawud, the companions of Yusuf, and the companions of Kursuf." Atiyyah said, "Who are the companions of Kursuf, O Messenger of Allah?" He said, "A man who was among the children of Israel on a coast of the sea. He used to fast during the day and stand in prayer at night, never neglecting fasting or prayer. Then, because of a woman he fell in love with, he disbelieved in Allah the Almighty. He left what he used to worship of his Lord. So, Allah caught up with him for what he had done before, and Allah accepted his repentance. Woe to you, O Akaf! Get married, for indeed, you are one of the sinners." Akaf said, "I will not cease, O Messenger of Allah, until you marry me to whomever you wish." So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Then, I have married you in the name of Allah and by His blessing to Karimah bint Kulthum al-Himyariyyah."
جَاءَ عَكَّافُ بْنُ وَدَاعَةَ الْهِلَالِيُّ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «يَا عَكَّافُ أَلَكَ زَوْجَةٌ؟» قَالَ لَا قَالَ «وَلَا جَارِيَةٌ؟» قَالَ لَا قَالَ «وَأَنْتَ صَحِيحٌ مُوسِرٌ؟» قَالَ نَعَمْ وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ قَالَ «فَأَنْتَ إِذًا مِنْ إِخَوَانِ الشَّيَاطِينِ إِمَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ مِنْ رُهْبَانِ النَّصَارَى فَأَنْتَ مِنْهُمْ وَأَنْ تَكُونَ مِنَّا فَاصْنَعْ كَمَا نَصْنَعُ فَإِنَّ مِنْ سُنَّتِنَا النِّكَاحُ شِرَارُكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ وَأَرْذَلُ مَوْتَاكُمْ عُزَّابُكُمْ أَفِي الشَّيْطَانِ تَمَرَّسُونَ مَا لَهُ فِي نَفْسِي سِلَاحٌ أَبْلَغُ فِي الصَّالِحِينَ مِنِ الرِّجَالِ وَالنِّسَاءِ إِلَّا الْمُتَزَوِّجُونَ أُولَئِكَ هم الْمُطَهَّرُونَ الْمُبَرَّءُونَ مِنَ الْخَنَا وَيْحَكَ يَا عَكَّافٌ إِنَّهُنَّ صَوَاحِبُ دَاوُدَ وَصَوَاحِبُ يُوسُفَ وَصَوَاحِبُ كُرْسُفَ» قَالَ عَطِيَّةُ وَمَنْ كُرْسُفُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ «رَجُلٌ كَانَ فِي بَنِي إِسْرَائِيلَ عَلَى سَاحِلٍ مِنْ سَوَاحِلِ الْبَحْرِ يَصُومُ النَّهَارَ وَيَقُومُ اللَّيْلَ لَا يَفْتُرُ مِنْ صِيَامٍ وَلَا صَلَاةٍ كَفَرَ مِنْ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ بِاللهِ الْعَظِيمِ فِي سَبَبِ امْرَأَةٍ عَشِقَهَا فَتَرَكَ مَا كَانَ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ عُبَادَةِ رَبِّهِ ﷻ فَتَدَارَكَهُ اللهُ عَمَّا سَلَفَ مِنْهُ فَتَابَ اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَيْحَكَ يَا عَكَّافٌ تَزَوَّجْ فَإِنَّكَ مِنَ الْمُذْنِبِينَ» فَقَالَ عَكَّافٌ لَا أَبْرَحُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ حَتَّى تَزَوَّجَنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «فَقَدْ زَوَّجْتُكَ عَلَى اسْمِ اللهِ وَبَرَكَتِهِ كَرِيمَةَ بِنْتَ كُلْثُومٍ الْحِمْيَرِيِّ»