TABARANI 21699:
from Um ʿAṭiyyah —
[Machine] "The deceased wife does not mourn except for her husband, she does not put on henna, perfume, or wear colored clothing except for a garment made of cotton." Hisham narrates from Hafsah, from Umm Atiyyah, from the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ something similar to this.
الطبراني ٢١٦٩٩:
عن ام عطيه —
«الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا لَا تُحِدُّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ وَلَا تَطَيَّبُ» وَقَالَ هِشَامٌ عَنْ حَفْصَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ مِثْلَهُ
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