The Prophet ﷺ said, "I saw myself (in a dream) entering Paradise, and behold! I saw Ar-Rumaisa', Abu Talha's wife. I heard footsteps. I asked, Who is it? Somebody said, 'It is Bilal ' Then I saw a palace and a lady sitting in its courtyard. I asked, 'For whom is this palace?' Somebody replied, 'It is for ʿUmar.' I intended to enter it and see it, but I thought of your (ʿUmar's) Ghira (and gave up the attempt)." ʿUmar said, "Let my parents be sacrificed for you, O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! How dare I think of my Ghira (self-respect) being offended by you? (Using translation from Bukhārī 3679)
"أُرِيتُ أنى دخلتُ الجنةَ فإذا أنا بالرُّمَيصاء امرأةِ أبي طلحة وسمعتُ خَشْفًا أمامى. فقلتُ: من هذا يا جبريلُ؟ قال: هذا بلالٌ ورأيتُ قصرًا أبيضَ بفنائِهِ جاريةٌ.
فقلتُ: لمن هذا القصرُ؟ قالت: لعمر بن الخطاب, فأردتُ أنْ أدخلَه فأنظرَ إليه فذكرتُ غيرتَك ".