TABARANI 20888:
from Asmāʾ b. Yazīd —
[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "O people, what leads you to follow falsehood like moths follow fire? Every lie is written against the son of Adam except for three: a man who lies to please his wife, a man who lies between two people in order to reconcile them, and a man who lies in war strategy."
الطبراني ٢٠٨٨٨:
عن اسماء بن يزيد —
سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ مَا يَحْمِلُكُمْ عَلَى أَنْ تَتَابَعُوا فِي الْكَذِبِ كَمَا يَتَتَابَعُ الْفَرَاشُ فِي النَّارِ كُلُّ الْكَذِبِ يَكْتُبُ عَلَى ابْنِ آدَمَ إِلَّا ثَلَاثًا رَجُلٌ كَذَبَ امْرَأَتَهُ لِيُرْضِيَهَا وَرَجُلٌ كَذَبَ بَيْنَ اثْنَيْنِ لِيُصْلِحَ بَيْنَهُمَا وَرَجُلٌ كَذَبَ فِي خَدِيعَةِ حَرْبٍ
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