14. Book of Marriage
١٤۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ
ذِكْرُ الْخَبَرِ الْمُدْحِضِ قَوْلَ مَنْ أَجَازَ إِتْيَانَ النِّسَاءِ فِي غَيْرِ مَوْضِعِ الْحَرْثِ
[Machine] The Jews said, "The act of intercourse is only valid if a man approaches his wife from behind. Allah revealed: 'Your wives are a tilth (field) for you, so approach your tilth from wherever you wish.' It is permissible for a man to approach his wife from in front or behind, but he should only do so in the proper manner."
قَالَتِ الْيَهُودُ «إِنَّمَا يَكُونُ الْحَوَلُ إِذَا أَتَى الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ مِنْ خَلْفِهَا فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} مِنْ قُدَّامِهَا وَمِنْ خَلْفِهَا وَلَا يَأْتِيهَا إِلَّا فِي الْمَأْتَى»
ذِكْرُ الزَّجْرِ عَنْ إِتْيَانِ النِّسَاءِ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, Allah is not shy of the truth. Do not approach women in their periods of menstruation."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَسْتَحِي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ»
ذِكْرُ خَبَرٍ ثَانٍ يُصَرِّحُ بِصِحَّةِ مَا ذَكَرْنَاهُ
“When one of you breaks wind then let him perform Wudu, and do not go into your women through their behinds.” (Using translation from Tirmidhī 1166)
يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُ يَخْرُجُ مِنْ أَحَدُنَا الرُّوَيْحَةُ قَالَ «إِذَا فَسَا أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيَتَوَضَّأْ وَلَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ»
ذِكْرُ الْبَيَانِ بِأَنَّ قَوْلَهُ ﷺ «فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ» أَرَادَ بِهِ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ
That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)
أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَسْتَحِي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»
ذِكْرُ الزَّجْرِ عَنْ إِتْيَانِ الْمَرْءِ أَهْلَهُ فِي غَيْرِ مَوْضِعِ الْحَرْثِ
[Machine] An Arab man came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "We live in a desert area where there is little water and a bad smell. The Prophet ﷺ said, "When one of you wants to go to his wife, let him perform ablution and do not approach women in their anuses, for Allah is not shy to tell the truth."
جَاءَ أَعْرَابِيٌّ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ إِنَّا نَكُونَ فِي أَرْضِ الْفَلَاةِ فَيَكُونُ مِنَّا الرُّوَيْحَةُ وَفِي الْمَاءِ قِلَّةٌ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «إِذَا فَسَا أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيَتَوَضَّأْ وَلَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَسْتَحِي مِنَ الْحَقِّ»
ذِكْرُ الْخَبَرِ الْمُدْحِضِ قَوْلَ مَنْ زَعَمَ إِبَاحَةَ إِتْيَانِ الْمَرْءِ أَهْلَهُ فِي غَيْرِ مَوْضِعِ الْحَرْثِ
"'Umar came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I am ruined!' He said: 'Why are you ruined?' He said: 'I turned my mount during the night (meaning that he went into his wife from behind).'" He said: "So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not say anything in reply to him. Then Allah revealed this Ayah to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: 'Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth when or how you will (2:223).' From the front, the back, avoiding the anus, and menstruation." (Using translation from Tirmidhī 2980)
جَاءَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ هَلَكْتُ قَالَ «وَمَا أَهْلَكَكَ؟ » قَالَ حَوَّلْتُ رَحْلِيَ اللَّيْلَةَ قَالَ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيْهِ شَيْئًا فَأَوْحَى اللَّهُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ هَذِهِ الْآيَةَ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} يَقُولُ «أَقْبِلْ وَأَدْبِرْ وَاتَّقِ الدُّبُرَ وَالْحَيْضَةَ»
ذِكْرُ الزَّجْرِ عَنْ إِتْيَانِ الْمَرْءِ امْرَأَةً فِي غَيْرِ مَوْضِعِ الْحَرْثِ
“Allah will not look at a man who enters a man or a woman in the behind.” (Using translation from Tirmidhī 1165)
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ إِلَى رَجُلٍ أَتَى امْرَأَةً فِي دُبُرِهَا»
ذِكْرُ نَفْيِ نَظَرِ اللَّهِ جَلَّ وَعَلَا عَلَى الْآتِي نِسَاءَهُ وَجَوَارِيَهُ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ
“Allah will not look at a man who enters a man or a woman in the behind.” (Using translation from Tirmidhī 1165)
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ إِلَى رَجُلٍ أَتَى امْرَأَتَهُ فِي دُبُرِهَا»