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bukhari:302 – Ismāʿīl b. Khalīl > ʿAlī b. Mushir > Abū Isḥāq > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

(on the authority of his father) ʿAisha said: "Whenever Messenger of Allah ﷺ wanted to fondle anyone of us during her periods (menses), he used to order her to put on an Izar and start fondling her." ʿAisha added, "None of you could control his sexual desires as the Prophet ﷺ could."  

البخاري:٣٠٢ – حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ خَلِيلٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ هُوَ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا فَأَرَادَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَنْ يُبَاشِرَهَا أَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَتَّزِرَ فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِهَا ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا قَالَتْ وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

تَابَعَهُ خَالِدٌ وَجَرِيرٌ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ

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Collected by Muslim, Abū Dāwūd, Ibn Mājah, Ḥākim, Bayhaqī
muslim:293b – [Chain 1] Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > al-Shaybānī [Chain 2] ʿAlī b. Ḥujr al-Saʿdī > ʿAlī b. Mushir > Abū Isḥāq > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

When anyone amongst us was menstruating the Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked her to tie waist-wrapper daring the time when the menstrual blood profusely flowed and then embraced her; and she ('A'isha) observed: And who amongst you can have control over his desires as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ had over his desires.  

مسلم:٢٩٣b – وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ ح وَحَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ حُجْرٍ السَّعْدِيُّ وَاللَّفْظُ لَهُ أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَمَرَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَنْ تَأْتَزِرَ فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِهَا ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا قَالَتْ وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

abudawud:273 – ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

'Aishah said; The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) would ask us in the beginning of our menstruation to tie the waist-wrapper. Then he would embrace us. And who amongst you can have as much control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) had over his desire?  

أبو داود:٢٧٣ – حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَأْمُرُنَا فِي فَوْحِ حَيْضِنَا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُنَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

ibnmajah:635 – [Chain 1] ʿAbdullāh b. al-Jarrāḥ > Abū al-Aḥwaṣ > ʿAbd al-Karīm [Chain 2] Abū Salamah Yaḥyá b. Khalaf > ʿAbd al-Aʿlá > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq [Chain 3] Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

"If one of us was menstruating, the Messenger of Allah would tell her to tie her waist-wrapper around herself if the bleeding was heavy, then he would embrace her. And who among you can control his desire as the Messenger of Allah used to control his desire?"  

ابن ماجة:٦٣٥ – حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الأَحْوَصِ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْكَرِيمِ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَلَمَةَ يَحْيَى بْنُ خَلَفٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ جَمِيعًا عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَمَرَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنْ تَأْتَزِرَ فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِهَا ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

hakim:614 – ʿAlī b. ʿĪsá > Musaddad b. Qaṭan > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

'Aishah said; The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) would ask us in the beginning of our menstruation to tie the waist-wrapper. Then he would embrace us. And who amongst you can have as much control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) had over his desire? (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 273)  

الحاكم:٦١٤ – حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ عِيسَى ثنا مُسَدَّدُ بْنُ قَطَنٍ عَنْ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا جَرِيرٌ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «يَأْمُرُنَا فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِنَا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرَنَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ؟»  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ عَلَى شَرْطِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ بِهَذَا اللَّفْظِ إِنَّمَا أَخْرَجَا فِي هَذَا الْبَابِ» حَدِيثَ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنِ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ «كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَأْمُرُ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُضَاجِعُنَا» على شرطهما
bayhaqi:1488 – Abū ʿAmr al-Adīb > Abū Bakr al-Ismāʿīlī > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr b. al-ʿAlāʾ al-Jurjānī > Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] One of us, when she was menstruating, the Prophet ﷺ commanded her to put on an izar (lower garment) during her menstruation, then he would have intimate relations with her. And which of you has control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ had control over his desire.  

البيهقي:١٤٨٨ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَمْرٍو الْأَدِيبُ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْإِسْمَاعِيلِيُّ أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَلَاءِ الْجُرْجَانِيُّ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَمَرَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنْ تَأْتَزِرَ فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِهَا ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ الْخَلِيلِ عَنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ مُسْهِرٍ وَرَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ