1. Purification

١۔ كتاب الطهارة وسننها

1.121 What a man may do with his wife when she is menstruating

١۔١٢١ باب مَا لِلرَّجُلِ مِنِ امْرَأَتِهِ إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا

ibnmajah:635[Chain 1] ʿAbdullāh b. al-Jarrāḥ > Abū al-Aḥwaṣ > ʿAbd al-Karīm [Chain 2] Abū Salamah Yaḥyá b. Khalaf > ʿAbd al-Aʿlá > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq [Chain 3] Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

"If one of us was menstruating, the Messenger of Allah would tell her to tie her waist-wrapper around herself if the bleeding was heavy, then he would embrace her. And who among you can control his desire as the Messenger of Allah used to control his desire?"  

ابن ماجة:٦٣٥حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الأَحْوَصِ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْكَرِيمِ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَلَمَةَ يَحْيَى بْنُ خَلَفٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ جَمِيعًا عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَمَرَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنْ تَأْتَزِرَ فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِهَا ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

ibnmajah:636Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > Manṣūr > Ibrāhīm > al-Aswad > ʿĀʾishah

"If one of us was menstruating, the Messenger of Allah would tell her to tie her waist-wrapper around herself, then he would embrace her."  

ابن ماجة:٦٣٦حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا حَاضَتْ أَمَرَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنْ تَأْتَزِرَ بِإِزَارٍ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُهَا  

ibnmajah:637Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Muḥammad b. Bishr > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr > Abū Salamah > Um Salamah

"I was with the Messenger of Allah under his blanket, then I felt that I was menstruating as women do, so I slipped out from under the cover. The Messenger of Allah said: 'Are you menstruating?' I said: 'I feel that I am menstruating as women do.' He said: 'That is what Allah has decreed for the daughters of Adam.' So I slipped out and sorted myself out, then I came back, and the Messenger of Allah said to me: 'Come under the cover with me,' so I went in with him.'"  

ابن ماجة:٦٣٧حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ قَالَتْ

كُنْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي لِحَافِهِ فَوَجَدْتُ مَا تَجِدُ النِّسَاءُ مِنَ الْحَيْضَةِ فَانْسَلَلْتُ مِنَ اللِّحَافِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَنَفِسْتِ قُلْتُ وَجَدْتُ مَا تَجِدُ النِّسَاءُ مِنَ الْحَيْضَةِ قَالَ ذَلِكَ مَا كَتَبَ اللَّهُ عَلَى بَنَاتِ آدَمَ قَالَتْ فَانْسَلَلْتُ فَأَصْلَحْتُ مِنْ شَأْنِي ثُمَّ رَجَعْتُ فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ تَعَالَىْ فَادْخُلِي مَعِي فِي اللِّحَافِ قَالَتْ فَدَخَلْتُ مَعَهُ  

ibnmajah:638al-Khalīl b. ʿAmr > Ibn Salamah > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq > Yazīd b. Abū Ḥabīb > Sūwayd b. Qays > Muʿāwiyah b. Ḥudayj > Muʿāwiyah b. Abū Sufyān

He asked Umm Habibah, the wife of the Prophet: "What did you used to do with the Messenger of Allah when you were menstruating?" She said: "If it was at the beginning of the period when the bleeding is heavy, we would tie the waist-wrapper tightly around our thighs, then lie down with the Messenger of Allah."  

ابن ماجة:٦٣٨حَدَّثَنَا الْخَلِيلُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ سُوَيْدِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ حُدَيْجٍ عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ

عَنْ أُمِّ حَبِيبَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ سَأَلْتُهَا كَيْفَ كُنْتِ تَصْنَعِينَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي الْحَيْضَةِ قَالَتْ كَانَتْ إِحْدَانَا فِي فَوْرِهَا أَوَّلَ مَا تَحِيضُ تَشُدُّ عَلَيْهَا إِزَارًا إِلَى أَنْصَافِ فَخِذَيْهَا ثُمَّ تَضْطَجِعُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ