[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ advised some members of his household: Do not associate partners with Allah, even if you are tortured or burned. Obey your parents, even if they order you to leave everything behind. And do not intentionally neglect prayer, as whoever intentionally abandons prayer has severed their relationship with Allah. Beware of alcohol, as it is the key to all evil. And beware of sinning, as it angers Allah. Do not get involved in matters that do not concern you, and if you find yourself in the midst of a deadly situation, remain steadfast. Spend on your family from your wealth and do not withhold your support from them. Protect them with the fear of Allah. The Sheikh commented on this by saying it was a correspondence between Makhooul and Umm Ayman. Abu Ubaid commented on this Hadith, saying that Al-Kisa'i and others have said that it does not refer to striking with a stick or ordering someone to do so. Rather, it is an admonition for good behavior. Abu Ubaid also mentioned that the essence of the stick is to gather and unite.
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَوْصَى بَعْضَ أَهْلِ بَيْتِهِ لَا تُشْرِكْ بِاللهِ وَإِنْ عُذِّبْتَ وَإِنْ حُرِّقْتَ وَأَطِعْ وَالِدَيْكَ وَإِنْ أَمَرَاكَ أَنْ تَخْرُجَ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ فَاخْرُجْ وَلَا تَتْرُكِ الصَّلَاةَ مُتَعَمِّدًا فَإِنَّهُ مَنْ تَرَكَ الصَّلَاةَ مُتَعَمِّدًا فَقَدْ بَرِئَتْ مِنْهُ ذِمَّةُ اللهِ إِيَّاكَ وَالْخَمْرَ فَإِنَّهَا مِفْتَاحُ كُلِّ شَرٍّ وَإِيَّاكَ وَالْمَعْصِيَةَ فَإِنَّهَا لَسُخْطُ اللهِ لَا تُنَازِعَنَّ الْأَمْرَ أَهْلَهُ وَإِنْ رَأَيْتَ أَنَّ لَكَ وَلَا تَفِرَّ مِنَ الزَّحْفِ وَإِنْ أَصَابَ النَّاسَ مَوْتَانِ وَأَنْتَ فِيهِمْ فَاثْبُتْ أَنْفِقْ عَلَى أَهْلِ بَيْتِكَ مِنْ طَوْلِكَ وَلَا تَرْفَعْ عَصَاكَ عَنْهُمْ وَأَخِفْهُمْ فِي اللهِ ﷻ قَالَ الشَّيْخُ فِي هَذَا إِرْسَالٌ بَيْنَ مَكْحُولٍ وَأُمِّ أَيْمَنَ قَالَ أَبُو عُبَيْدٍ فِي هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ قَالَ الْكِسَائِيُّ وَغَيْرُهُ يُقَالُ إِنَّهُ لَمْ يُرِدِ الْعَصَا الَّتِي يُضْرَبُ بِهَا وَلَا أَمَرَ أَحَدًا قَطُّ بِذَلِكَ وَلَكِنَّهُ أَرَادَ الْأَدَبَ قَالَ أَبُو عُبَيْدٍ وَأَصْلُ الْعَصَا الِاجْتِمَاعُ وَالِائْتِلَافُ