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[Machine] From the Prophet of Allah ﷺ : Do not ask a man about how he struck his wife, and do not sleep except on a mattress. I forgot the third part, and someone else narrated from Abu Dawood in this chain, from Abdulrahman Al-Musliy.  

البيهقي:١٤٧٧٨ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ أنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ نا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ نا أَبُو دَاوُدَ نا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْمُسْلِيِّ عَنِ الْأَشْعَثِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ قَالَ ضِفْتُ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ فَقَالَ لِي يَا أَشْعَثُ احْفَظْ عَنِّي ثَلَاثًا حَفِظْتُهُنَّ

عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ لَا تَسْأَلِ الرَّجُلَ فِيمَ ضَرَبَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَلَا تَنَامَنَّ إِلَّا عَلَى وِتْرٍ وَنَسِيتُ الثَّالِثَةَ وَقَالَ غَيْرُهُ عَنْ أَبِي دَاوُدَ فِي هَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْمُسْلِيِّ  

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ahmad:122 – Sulaymān b. Dāwud / Abū Dāwud al-Ṭayālisī > Abū ʿAwānah > Dāwud al-Awdī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman al-Musliyyiʿan al-Ashʿath b. Qays > Ḍift ʿUmar Fatanāwal Āmraʾatah Faḍarabahā > Yā Ashʿath Āḥfaẓ > Nī Thalāth Ḥafiẓtuhun

I visited 'Umar and he reached out and hit his wife. He said : O: Ash'ath, learn from me three things that I learned from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: Do not ask a man why he hit his wife, do not sleep until you pray Witr - and I forgot the third thing  

أحمد:١٢٢ – حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ يَعْنِي أَبَا دَاوُدَ الطَّيَالِسِيَّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ دَاوُدَ الْأَوْدِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْمُسْلِيِّعَنِ الْأَشْعَثِ بْنِ قَيْسٍ قَالَ ضِفْتُ عُمَرَ فَتَنَاوَلَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَضَرَبَهَا

وَقَالَ يَا أَشْعَثُ احْفَظْ عَنِّي ثَلاثًا حَفِظْتُهُنَّ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ لَا تَسْأَلِ الرَّجُلَ فِيمَ ضَرَبَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَلا تَنَمْ إِلَّا عَلَى وَتْرٍ وَنَسِيتُ الثَّالِثَةَ