12. Nikāḥ (Marriage)

١٢۔ كتاب النكاح

12.9 Regarding Breastfeeding An Adult

١٢۔٩ باب فِي رَضَاعَةِ الْكَبِيرِ

abudawud:2058[Chain 1] Ḥafṣ b. ʿUmar > Shuʿbah [Chain 2] Muḥammad b. Kathīr > Sufyān > Ashʿath b. Sulaym from his father > Masrūq > ʿĀʾishah al-Maʿná Wāḥid

A’ishah said the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ visited her when a man was with her. The narrator Hafs said “this grieved him and he frowned”. The agreed version then goes, She said “He is my foster brother Apostle of Allaah ﷺ”. He said “Consider, who are you brethren, for fosterage is consequent on hunger.”  

أبو داود:٢٠٥٨حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصُ بْنُ عُمَرَ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَشْعَثَ بْنِ سُلَيْمٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ الْمَعْنَى وَاحِدٌ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا وَعِنْدَهَا رَجُلٌ قَالَ حَفْصٌ فَشَقَّ ذَلِكَ عَلَيْهِ وَتَغَيَّرَ وَجْهُهُ ثُمَّ اتَّفَقَا قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُ أَخِي مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ فَقَالَ انْظُرْنَ مَنْ إِخْوَانُكُنَّ فَإِنَّمَا الرَّضَاعَةُ مِنَ الْمَجَاعَةِ  

abudawud:2059ʿAbd al-Salām b. Muṭahhir > Sulaymān b. al-Mughīrah Ḥaddathahum > Abū Mūsá from his father > Ibn Liʿabd Allāh b. Masʿūd > Ibn Masʿūd > Lā Riḍāʿ Ilā Mā Shad al-ʿAẓm And ʾAnbat al-Laḥm

‘Abd Allaah bin Mas’ud said “Fosterage is not valid except by what strengthens love and grows flesh.” Abu Musa said “Do not ask us so long as this learned man is among us”  

أبو داود:٢٠٥٩حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ السَّلاَمِ بْنُ مُطَهِّرٍ أَنَّ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ حَدَّثَهُمْ عَنْ أَبِي مُوسَى عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنٍ لِعَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ عَنِ ابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ

لاَ رِضَاعَ إِلاَّ مَا شَدَّ الْعَظْمَ وَأَنْبَتَ اللَّحْمَ فَقَالَ أَبُو مُوسَى لاَ تَسْأَلُونَا وَهَذَا الْحَبْرُ فِيكُمْ  

abudawud:2060Muḥammad b. Sulaymān al-Anbārī > Wakīʿ > Sulaymān b. al-Mughīrah > Abū Mūsá al-Hilālī from his father > Ibn Masʿūd

The aforesaid tradition has also been narrated by Ibn Mas’ud through a different chain of narrators and to the same effect from the Prophet ﷺ. This version has the words anshaz al-‘azma meaning which nourishes bones and makes them sturdy and vigorous.  

أبو داود:٢٠٦٠حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ الأَنْبَارِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَنْ أَبِي مُوسَى الْهِلاَلِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ مَسْعُودٍ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِمَعْنَاهُ وَقَالَ أَنْشَزَ الْعَظْمَ