BAYHAQI 20798:
from Abū al-Dardāʾ —
"Whoever was given his share of gentleness, then he has been given a share of good. And whoever has been prevented from his share of gentleness, then he has been prevented from his share of good." (Using translation from Tirmidhī 2013)
البيهقي ٢٠٧٩٨:
عن ابو الدرداء —
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ مَنْ أُعْطِيَ حَظَّهُ مِنَ الرِّفْقِ فَقَدْ أُعْطِيَ حَظَّهُ مِنَ الْخَيْرِ وَمَنْ حُرِمَ حَظَّهُ مِنَ الرِّفْقِ فَقَدْ حُرِمَ حَظَّهُ مِنَ الْخَيْرِ وَقَالَ أَثْقَلُ شَيْءٍ فِي مِيزَانِ الْمُؤْمِنِ خُلُقٌ حَسَنٌ إِنَّ اللهَ يُبْغِضُ الْفَاحِشَ الْبَذِيءَ
hadithunlocked.com