ذِكْرُ اسْتِحْبَابِ تَحَمُّلِ الْمَكَارِهِ لِلْمَرْأَةِ عَنْ زَوْجِهَا رَجَاءَ الْإِبْلَاغِ فِي قَضَاءِ حُقُوقِهِ

[Machine] From the narration of Al-Abdiyy, who was one of the companions of Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri, from Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri, who said: A man came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with his daughter and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my daughter refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She said, "By the One who has sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of the husband over his wife." He said, "The right of the husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she must lick it to fulfill his right."  

عَنْ نَهَارٍ الْعَبْدِيِّ وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ» فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ؟ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ بِهِ قَرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ  

[Machine] "A man came to the Prophet ﷺ with his daughter and said, 'This is my daughter, she refuses to get married.' The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Obey your father.' She kept repeating her statement, so he said to her, 'By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of the husband over his wife.' The Prophet ﷺ said, 'The husband's right over his wife is that if he has a wound, she licks it until she fulfills his right.' She then said, 'By the One who sent you with the truth, I will never get married.' The Prophet ﷺ said, 'Do not marry them without their consent.' Abu Abdur-Rahman (i.e., Prophet's companion) said, 'Abu Haroon Al-Abdi, whose hadith is abandoned, and his name is Umara bin Jowain, and Abu Haroon Al-Ghanawi, whose hadith is acceptable, and his name is Ibrahim bin Al-Ala,' and both of them are from the people of Basra."  

جَاءَ رَجُلٌ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي أَبَتْ أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ «أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ» كُلُّ ذَلِكَ تُرَدِّدُ عَلَيْهِ مَقَالَتَهَا فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ فَقَالَ «حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ لَوْ كَانَتْ بِهِ قُرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ» فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا فَقَالَ «لَا تُنْكِحُوهُنَّ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِنَّ» قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَبُو هَارُونَ الْعَبْدِيُّ مَتْرُوكُ الْحَدِيثِ وَاسْمُهُ عُمَارَةُ بْنُ جُوَيْنٍ وَأَبُو هَارُونَ الْغَنَوِيُّ لَا بَأْسَ بِهِ وَاسْمُهُ إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ وَكِلَاهُمَا مِنْ أَهْلِ الْبَصْرَةِ  

[Machine] A man came to the Prophet ﷺ with his daughter, and said, "O Messenger of Allah, this is my daughter who refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She replied, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of a husband over his wife." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The right of a husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she should lick it to fulfill his right."  

جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ لَهُ قُرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ