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hakim:2767 – al-Ḥasan b. Yaʿqūb al-ʿAdl > Muḥammad b. ʿAbd al-Wahhāb al-Farrāʾ > Jaʿfar b. ʿAwn > Rabīʿah b. ʿUthmān > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān > Nahār

[Machine] From the narration of Al-Abdiyy, who was one of the companions of Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri, from Abu Sa'eed Al-Khudri, who said: A man came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with his daughter and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my daughter refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She said, "By the One who has sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of the husband over his wife." He said, "The right of the husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she must lick it to fulfill his right."  

الحاكم:٢٧٦٧ – أَخْبَرَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْعَدْلُ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ الْفَرَّاءُ أَنْبَأَ جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ ثنا رَبِيعَةُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ

عَنْ نَهَارٍ الْعَبْدِيِّ وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ» فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ؟ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ بِهِ قَرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ» بل منكر قال أبو حاتم ربيعة منكر الحديث

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Collected by Ibn Ḥibbān, Bayhaqī

ذِكْرُ اسْتِحْبَابِ تَحَمُّلِ الْمَكَارِهِ لِلْمَرْأَةِ عَنْ زَوْجِهَا رَجَاءَ الْإِبْلَاغِ فِي قَضَاءِ حُقُوقِهِ

ibnhibban:4164 – Muḥammad b. Isḥāq b. Khuzaymah > Aḥmad b. ʿUthmān b. Ḥakīm > Jaʿfar b. ʿAwn > Rabīʿah b. ʿUthmān > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥibbān > Nahār al-ʿAbdī > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

[Machine] A man came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with his daughter and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my daughter refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She said, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of the husband over his wife." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The right of the husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she should lick it (i.e., give him her full attention)." She said, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will never get married." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Do not marry them without their guardian's permission."  

ابن حبّان:٤١٦٤ – أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ بْنِ خُزَيْمَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا رَبِيعَةُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ حِبَّانَ عَنْ نَهَارِ الْعَبْدِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ

جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ» فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ قَرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ» قَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «لَا تَنْكِحُوهُنَّ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ أَهْلِهِنَّ»  

bayhaqi:14707 – Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > al-Ḥasan b. Yaʿqūb al-ʿAdl > Muḥammad b. ʿAbd al-Wahhāb al-Farrāʾ > Jaʿfar b. ʿAwn > Rabīʿah b. ʿUthmān > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān

[Machine] A man came to the Prophet ﷺ with his daughter, and said, "O Messenger of Allah, this is my daughter who refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She replied, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of a husband over his wife." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The right of a husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she should lick it to fulfill his right."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٧ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْعَدْلُ أنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ الْفَرَّاءُ أنا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ ثنا رَبِيعَةُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ عَنْ نَهَارٍ الْعَبْدِيِّ وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ ؓ قَالَ

جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ لَهُ قُرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ