67. Nikāḥ (Wedlock / Marriage)

٦٧۔ كتاب النكاح

67.95 Not to obey the husband if he orders to do something sinful

٦٧۔٩٥ باب لاَ تُطِيعُ الْمَرْأَةُ زَوْجَهَا فِي مَعْصِيَةٍ

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An Ansari woman gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of the latter started falling out. The Ansari women came to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned that to him and said, "Her (my daughter's) husband suggested that I should let her wear false hair." The Prophet ﷺ said, "No, (don't do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially."  

البخاري:٥٢٠٥حَدَّثَنَا خَلاَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ نَافِعٍ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ هُوَ ابْنُ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ صَفِيَّةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ

أَنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ زَوَّجَتِ ابْنَتَهَا فَتَمَعَّطَ شَعَرُ رَأْسِهَا فَجَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ زَوْجَهَا أَمَرَنِي أَنْ أَصِلَ فِي شَعَرِهَا فَقَالَ لاَ إِنَّهُ قَدْ لُعِنَ الْمُوصِلاَتُ