[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ took me by the hand, and I went with him to Ibrahim, his son, who was playing by himself. The Prophet ﷺ took him into his room and kept him there until his soul departed. He then placed him down and cried. I said to him, "O Messenger of Allah, you cry even though you have forbidden crying?" He said, "I have not forbidden crying, but I have forbidden two foolish and sinful voices: a voice produced during idle entertainment, play, and the devil's flutes, and a voice produced during a calamity that involves striking faces and tearing garments. This is mercy, and whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy. If it were not for the fact that it is a true promise and a true saying, and that the first will join the latter, we would have been more sorrowful for you than this. Indeed, O Ibrahim, our eyes shed tears, our hearts grieve, but we do not say anything that angers the Lord." (This part has been excluded by Al-Dhahabi in his summary.)

أَخَذَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ بِيَدِي فَانْطَلَقْتُ مَعَهُ إِلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ ابْنِهِ وَهُوَ يَجُودُ بِنَفْسِهِ فَأَخَذَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فِي حِجْرِهِ حَتَّى خَرَجَتْ نَفْسُهُ قَالَ فَوَضَعَهُ وَبَكَى قَالَ فَقُلْتُ تَبْكِي يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَأَنْتَ تَنْهَى عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ قَالَ «إِنِّي لَمْ أَنْهَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ وَلَكِنِّي نَهَيْتُ عَنْ صَوْتَيْنِ أَحْمَقَيْنِ فَاجِرَيْنِ صَوْتٍ عِنْدَ نغمةِ لَهْوٍ وَلَعِبٍ وَمَزَامِيرِ الشَّيْطَانِ وَصَوْتٍ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَةٍ لَطْمِ وجُوهٍ وَشَقِّ جُيُوبٍ وَهَذِهِ رَحْمَةٌ وَمَنْ لَا يَرْحَمُ لَا يُرْحَمُ وَلَوْلَا أَنَّهُ وَعْدٌ صَادِقٌ وَقَوْلٌ حَقٌّ وَأَنْ يَلْحَقَ أُولَانَا بِأُخْرَانَا لَحَزِنَّا عَلَيْكَ حُزْنًا أَشَدَّ مِنْ هَذَا وَإِنَّا بِكَ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَمَحْزُونُونَ تَبْكِي الْعَيْنُ وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ وَلَا نَقُولُ مَا يُسْخِطُ الرَّبَّ» حذفه الذهبي من التلخيص

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ went out with Abdullah ibn Awf to the date palm trees, and suddenly his son Ibrahim began to gasp for breath. So the Prophet put him down in his lap, and his eyes filled with tears. Abdullah ibn Awf said, "Are you crying while you forbid people from crying?" The Prophet said, "I do not forbid crying, but I forbid two foolish and sinful voices: a voice at the sound of play and amusement, and the flutes of Satan, and a voice at the time of a calamity that involves tearing of faces and cutting of pockets, and wailing. This is a mercy, and whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy. O Ibrahim! Had it not been the fact that this is a promise of Allah and a matter that is true, and that our last will join our first, we would have been more grief-stricken because of you than this. We are saddened by you, O Ibrahim!" His eyes were shedding tears, his heart was saddened, and we do not say anything that angers the Lord.

خَرَجَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ بِعَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ ؓ إِلَى النَّخْلِ فَإِذَا ابْنُهُ إِبْرَاهِيمُ يَجُودُ بِنَفْسِهِ فَوَضَعَهُ فِي حِجْرِهِ فَفَاضَتْ عَيْنَاهُ فَقَالَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَوْفٍ أَتَبْكِي وَأَنْتَ تَنْهَى النَّاسَ؟ قَالَ إِنِّي لَمْ أَنْهَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ إِنَّمَا نَهَيْتُ عَنِ النَّوْحِ صَوْتَيْنِ أَحْمَقَيْنِ فَاجِرَيْنِ صَوْتٌ عِنْدَ نَغَمَةِ لَهْوٍ وَلَعِبٍ وَمَزَامِيرِ شَيْطَانٍ وَصَوْتٌ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَةٍ خَمْشُ وُجُوهٍ وَشَقُّ جُيُوبٍ وَرَنَّةٌ وَهَذَا هُوَ رَحْمَةٌ وَمَنْ لَا يَرْحَمُ لَا يُرْحَمُ يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ لَوْلَا أَنَّهُ أَمْرٌ حَقٌّ وَوَعْدٌ صِدْقٌ وَأَنَّ آخِرَنَا سَيَلْحَقُ بِأَوَّلِنَا لَحَزِنَّا عَلَيْكَ حُزْنًا هُوَ أَشَدُّ مِنْ هَذَا وَإِنَّا بِكَ لَمَحْزُونُونَ تَبْكِي الْعَيْنُ وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ وَلَا نَقُولُ مَا يُسْخِطُ الرَّبَّ

"إِنِّى لَمْ أنْهَ عن البكاءِ، إِنَّمَا نُهِيتُ عن النَّوْحِ. عن صوتين أحمقين فاجرين. صوتٍ عند نغمةِ لهوٍ ولعبٍ ومزامير شيطانٍ، وصوت عند مصيبة، خمِش وجوهٍ وشَقِّ جيوب وَزَنَّة شَيْطان إِنَّمَا هذا رحمةٌ ومن لا يرحمْ لا يُرْحَمْ، يا إِبراهيمُ، لولا أَنَّهُ أمْرٌ حَقٌّ وَوَعْدٌ صِدْقٌ وَأَنَّهَا سبيلٌ مَأتِيَّةٌ، وأَنَّ آخِرنَا سيلْحَق أَوّلنا لَحَزِنَّا عليك حُزْنًا هو أشَدُّ من هذا وَإِنَّا بِكَ لمحْزُونون، تدمعُ العينُ، ويحزَنُ القَلبُ ولا نقولُ ما يُسخط الرَّبَّ ﷻ".

"لَمْ أَنْهَ عَنْ الْبُكَاءِ، إِنَّمَا نَهَيتُ عَنْ النَّوْحِ, وَعَنْ صَوْتَين أَحْمَقَينِ فَاجِرَين: صَوْتٌ عِندَ نَغَمَةِ مِزمَارِ شَيطَانٍ وَلَعِبٍ, وَصَوْتٌ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَةٍ خَمْشُ وُجُوهٍ، وَشَقُّ جُيُوبٍ، وَرَنَّة شَيطَانٍ، وَإنَّمَا هَذِهِ رَحْمَةٌ وَمَن لَا يَرْحَم لَا يُرْحَم؛ يَا إِبْرَاهِيِمُ لَوْلَا أَنَّهُ أَمْرٌ حَقٌّ، وَوَعْدٌ صِدْقٌ، وَسَبِيلٌ مَأْتِيٌّ، وَأَنَّ أُخْرَانَا سَتَلْحَق أُولانَا لَحَزِنَّا عَلَيكَ حُزْنًا هوَ أَشَدُّ مِنْ هَذَا، وَإِنَّا بِكَ لَمَحزُونُون، تَبْكِى الْعَين، وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ, وَلَا نَقُولُ ما يُسْخِطُ الرَّبَّ".