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bayhaqi:6981 – Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ And ʾAbū Saʿīd b. Abū ʿAmr > Abū al-ʿAbbās Muḥammad b. Yaʿqūb > Ibrāhīm b. Marzūq > Wahb b. Jarīr > Shuʿbah > al-Hajarī / Ibrāhīm > ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Awfá

[Machine] His daughter died, so he came out in her funeral on a bier behind the funeral procession. The women began to lament, so Abdullah ibn Abu Awfa said: "Do not lament, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade mourning, but rather let one of you cry over her own loss as she wishes." Then he prayed over her and raised his hands in supplication, as far as the distance between the two prostrations, seeking forgiveness for her and making du'a. Then he said: "This is how the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to do."  

البيهقي:٦٩٨١ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ وَأَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ أَبِي عَمْرٍو قَالَا ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مَرْزُوقٍ ثنا وَهْبُ بْنُ جَرِيرٍ ثنا شُعْبَةُ عَنِ الْهَجَرِيِّ يَعْنِي إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ

مَاتَتِ ابْنَةٌ لَهُ فَخَرَجَ فِي جِنَازَتِهَا عَلَى بَغْلَةٍ خَلْفَ الْجِنَازَةِ فَجَعَلَ النِّسَاءُ يَرْثِينَ فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَبِي أَوْفَى لَا تَرْثِينَ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنِ الْمَرَاثِي وَلَكِنْ لِتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ قَالَ ثُمَّ صَلَّى عَلَيْهَا فَكَبَّرَ أَرْبَعًا فَقَامَ بَعْدَ التَّكْبِيرَةِ الرَّابِعَةِ بِقَدْرِ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَسْتَغْفِرُ لَهَا وَيَدْعُو ثُمَّ قَالَ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَصْنَعُ هَكَذَا  

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ahmad:19140 – Ḥusayn b. Muḥammad > Shuʿbah > Ibrāhīm al-Hajarī

[Machine] "Do not lament, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade mourning. One of you should shed tears as much as she wishes, then she should suppress them and say the takbirs four times. After the fourth takbir, she should stand and pray, raising her hands between the two takbirs. Then she should make supplication and say that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to act in the funeral in this way."  

أحمد:١٩١٤٠ – حَدَّثَنَا حُسَيْنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْهَجَرِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ الشَّجَرَةِ فَمَاتَتْ ابْنَةٌ لَهُ وَكَانَ يَتْبَعُ جِنَازَتَهَا عَلَى بَغْلَةٍ خَلْفَهَا فَجَعَلَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ

لَا تَرْثِينَ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنِ الْمَرَاثِي فَتُفِيضُ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ ثُمَّ كَبَّرَ عَلَيْهَا أَرْبَعًا ثُمَّ قَامَ بَعْدَ الرَّابِعَةِ قَدْرَ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَدْعُو ثُمَّ قَالَ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَصْنَعُ فِي الْجِنَازَةِ هَكَذَا  

hakim:1330 – ʿAlī b. Ḥamshādh al-ʿAdl > Muḥammad b. Mandah > Bakr b. Bakkār > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Ḥasan al-Qāḍī > Ibrāhīm b. al-Ḥusayn > Ādam b. Abū Iyās > Aḥmad b. Jaʿfar al-Qaṭīʿī > ʿAbdullāh b. Aḥmad b. Ḥanbal from my father > Muḥammad b. Jaʿfar > Shuʿbah > Ibrāhīm al-Hajarī > ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Awfá > Tuwuffiyat

[Machine] A daughter of his died, so he followed her on a mule, walking behind the funeral procession, while women were mourning her. He said, "Let them mourn or not mourn. Verily, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade mourning." And he said, "One of you should take off her outer garment as she wishes, then he offered the funeral prayer over her, and he performed four Takbirs (saying Allahu Akbar, meaning Allah is the Greatest) over her grave, then he stood after the fourth Takbir for as long as it takes to say the distance between the two Takbirs, seeking forgiveness for her and supplicating. It was narrated, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to do it like this.'"  

الحاكم:١٣٣٠ – حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ حَمْشَاذَ الْعَدْلُ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَنْدَهْ ثنا بَكْرُ بْنُ بَكَّارٍ وَأَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ ثنا آدَمُ بْنُ أَبِي إِيَاسٍ وَحَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الْقَطِيعِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَنْبَلٍ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ قَالُوا ثنا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْهَجَرِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ

تُوُفِّيَتْ بِنْتٌ لَهُ فَتَبِعَهَا عَلَى بَغْلَةٍ يَمْشِي خَلْفَ الْجِنَازَةِ وَنِسَاءٌ يَرْثِينَهَا فَقَالَ يَرْثِينَ أَوْ لَا يَرْثِينَ «فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنِ الْمَرَاثِي» وَلْتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ ثُمَّ «صَلَّى عَلَيْهَا فَكَبَّرَ عَلَيْهَا أَرْبَعًا ثُمَّ قَامَ بَعْدَ الرَّابِعَةِ قَدْرَ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَسْتَغْفِرُ لَهَا وَيَدْعُو» وَقَالَ «كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَصْنَعُ هَكَذَا»  

هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ وَإِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ الْهَجَرِيُّ لَمْ يُنْقَمْ عَلَيْهِ بِحُجَّةٍ
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السيوطي:٣٩٧-٢٠b –

"عَنْ إِبْراهِيمَ الهَجْرِىِّ قَالَ: رَأَيْتُ ابْنَ أَبِى أَوْفَى، وَكَان من أَصْحَاب الشَّجَرَةِ، وَمَاتَتَ ابْنَةٌ فَتَبِعَهَا عَلَى بَغْلٍ خَلفَهَا، فَجَعَلَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ، فَقَالَ: لا تَرْثِينَ؟ فَإنَّ رَسولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَن (المراثِى) وَلتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ، ثُمَّ كَبَّرَ عَلَيْهَا أرْبَعًا، ثُمَّ قَامَ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ قَدْرَ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَدْعُو، وَقَالَ: إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ كانَ يَصْنَعُ في الجنَائِز هَكَذَا".  

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