[Machine] A daughter of his died, so he followed her on a mule, walking behind the funeral procession, while women were mourning her. He said, "Let them mourn or not mourn. Verily, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade mourning." And he said, "One of you should take off her outer garment as she wishes, then he offered the funeral prayer over her, and he performed four Takbirs (saying Allahu Akbar, meaning Allah is the Greatest) over her grave, then he stood after the fourth Takbir for as long as it takes to say the distance between the two Takbirs, seeking forgiveness for her and supplicating. It was narrated, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to do it like this.'"  

تُوُفِّيَتْ بِنْتٌ لَهُ فَتَبِعَهَا عَلَى بَغْلَةٍ يَمْشِي خَلْفَ الْجِنَازَةِ وَنِسَاءٌ يَرْثِينَهَا فَقَالَ يَرْثِينَ أَوْ لَا يَرْثِينَ «فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنِ الْمَرَاثِي» وَلْتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ ثُمَّ «صَلَّى عَلَيْهَا فَكَبَّرَ عَلَيْهَا أَرْبَعًا ثُمَّ قَامَ بَعْدَ الرَّابِعَةِ قَدْرَ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَسْتَغْفِرُ لَهَا وَيَدْعُو» وَقَالَ «كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَصْنَعُ هَكَذَا»  

[Machine] His daughter died, so he came out in her funeral on a bier behind the funeral procession. The women began to lament, so Abdullah ibn Abu Awfa said: "Do not lament, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade mourning, but rather let one of you cry over her own loss as she wishes." Then he prayed over her and raised his hands in supplication, as far as the distance between the two prostrations, seeking forgiveness for her and making du'a. Then he said: "This is how the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to do."  

مَاتَتِ ابْنَةٌ لَهُ فَخَرَجَ فِي جِنَازَتِهَا عَلَى بَغْلَةٍ خَلْفَ الْجِنَازَةِ فَجَعَلَ النِّسَاءُ يَرْثِينَ فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَبِي أَوْفَى لَا تَرْثِينَ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنِ الْمَرَاثِي وَلَكِنْ لِتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ قَالَ ثُمَّ صَلَّى عَلَيْهَا فَكَبَّرَ أَرْبَعًا فَقَامَ بَعْدَ التَّكْبِيرَةِ الرَّابِعَةِ بِقَدْرِ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَسْتَغْفِرُ لَهَا وَيَدْعُو ثُمَّ قَالَ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَصْنَعُ هَكَذَا  

"عَنْ إِبْراهِيمَ الهَجْرِىِّ قَالَ: رَأَيْتُ ابْنَ أَبِى أَوْفَى، وَكَان من أَصْحَاب الشَّجَرَةِ، وَمَاتَتَ ابْنَةٌ فَتَبِعَهَا عَلَى بَغْلٍ خَلفَهَا، فَجَعَلَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ، فَقَالَ: لا تَرْثِينَ؟ فَإنَّ رَسولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَن (المراثِى) وَلتُفِضْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ مِنْ عَبْرَتِهَا مَا شَاءَتْ، ثُمَّ كَبَّرَ عَلَيْهَا أرْبَعًا، ثُمَّ قَامَ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ قَدْرَ مَا بَيْنَ التَّكْبِيرَتَيْنِ يَدْعُو، وَقَالَ: إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ كانَ يَصْنَعُ في الجنَائِز هَكَذَا".