Messenger of Allah, may Allah keep you happy all your life. Then Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: I wonder at these women who were with me and no sooner did they hear your voice, they immediately went behind the curtain. Thereupon 'Umar said: Messenger of Allah, you have more right that they should fear you. Then Umar (addressing the women) said: O ye enemies of yourselves, do you fear me and fear not the Messenger of Allah ﷺ? They said: Yes, you are harsh and strict as compared to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Thereupon, Messenger of Allah (maypeace be upon him) said: By Him in Whose Hand is my life, if satan would encounter you in the way he would certainly take a different way from that of yours. (Using translation from Muslim 2396)
اسْتَأْذَنَ عُمَرُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَعِنْدَهُ نِسَاءٌ مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ يُكَلِّمْنَهُ وَيَسْتَكْثِرْنَهُ عَالِيَةٌ أَصْوَاتُهُنَّ فَلَمَّا اسْتَأْذَنَ قُمْنَ يَبْتَدِرْنَ الْحِجَابَ فَأَذِنَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَعْنِي فَدَخَلَ وَرَسُولُاللهِ ﷺ يَضْحَكُ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ أَضْحَكَ اللهُ سِنَّكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَجِبْتُ مِنْ هَؤُلاءِ اللاتِي كُنَّ عِنْدِي فَلَمَّا سَمِعْنَ صَوْتَكَ ابْتَدَرْنَ الْحِجَابَ قَالَ عُمَرُ فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ كُنْتَ أَحَقَّ أَنْ يَهَبْنَ ثُمَّ قَالَ عُمَرُ أَيْ عَدُوَّاتِ أَنْفُسِهِنَّ أَتَهَبْنَنِي وَلا تَهَبْنَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قُلْنَ نَعَمْ أَنْتَ أَغْلَظُ وَأَفَظُّ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا لَقِيَكَ الشَّيْطَانُ قَطُّ سَالِكًا فَجًّا إِلا سَلَكَ فَجًّا غَيْرَ فَجِّكَ قَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ أَبِي وقَالَ يَعْقُوبُ مَا أُحْصِي مَا سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ حَدَّثَنَا صَالِحٌ عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ