[Machine] He entered upon me one day and spoke to me about something while he was in a state of anger. I responded to him, saying, "You are like the back of my mother." Then he left and sat with his companions. He returned to me and wanted something from me, but I refused. He became more harsh with me, so I became harsh with him and overpowered him with what women use to overpower weak men. I said, "No, by the One in whose hand is the soul of Khawla, you will not reach her until Allah passes judgment on me and on you." So I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and complained to him about what I had encountered from him. He said, "Your husband and your cousin fear Allah." Then Allah revealed (in Surah Al-Mujadilah), "Indeed, Allah has heard the statement of the one who argues with you concerning her husband." This continued until the expiation was fulfilled. Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Order him to free a slave." She said, "O Messenger of Allah, he does not have a slave to free." He said, "Then let him fast for two consecutive months." She said, "O Messenger of Allah, he is an old man and does not have the ability to fast." He said, "Then let him feed sixty poor people." She said, "By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, he does not have anything to feed them with." He said, "Then we will help him with a basket of dates." And a basket of dates is approximately thirty Sa'. I said, "And I will assist him with another basket of dates." He said, "You have done well. Let him charity with it."  

دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ وَكَلَّمَنِي بِشَيْءٍ وَهُوَ فِيهِ كَالضِّجِرِ فَرَادَدْتُهُ فَقَالَ أَنْتِ عَلَيَّ كَظَهْرِ أُمِّي ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَجَلَسَ فِي نَادِي قَوْمِهِ ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلَيَّ فَأَرَادَنِي عَلَى نَفْسِي فَامْتَنَعْتُ مِنْهُ فَشَادَدَنِي فَشَادَدْتُهُ فَغَلَبْتُهُ بِمَا تَغْلِبُ بِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ الرَّجُلَ الضَّعِيفَ فَقُلْتُ كَلَّا وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ خُوَيْلَةَ بِيَدِهِ لَا تَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَحْكُمَ اللهُ فِيَّ وَفِيكَ حُكْمَهُ فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ مَا لَقِيتُ مِنْهُ فَقَالَ «زَوْجُكِ وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ فَاتَّقِي اللهَ» وَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ ﷻ {قَدْ سَمِعَ اللهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا} حَتَّى بَلَغَ الْكَفَّارَةَ ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «مُرِيهِ فَلْيَعْتِقْ رَقَبَةً» قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ رَقَبَةٌ يَعْتِقُهَا قَالَ «فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ» قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ وَاللهِ مَا بِهِ مِنْ صِيَامٍ قَالَ «فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا» قَالَتْ وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ مَا يُطْعِمُ قَالَ «سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ» وَالْعَرَقُ يَسَعُ ثَلَاثِينَ صَاعًا قُلْتُ وَأَنَا أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ قَالَ «أَحْسَنْتِ مُرِيهِ فَلْيَتَصَدَّقْ بِهِ»  

[Machine] Ali entered one day and spoke to me angrily. I responded to him, "You are like the back of my mother." Then he left, sat down, called his people, and returned to me, aiming at me. I resisted and he became more aggressive, so I became more aggressive towards him. I defeated him in the same way a weak woman defeats a man. I said, "No, by the One in whose hand is Khuwaylah's soul, you will not reach her until Allah judges between me and you." So, I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to complain about what I had experienced from him. He said, "Your husband and your cousin. Fear Allah." Then Allah revealed: "Allah has indeed heard the statement of her that disputes with you concerning her husband and complains to Allah" [Quran 58:1]. It continued until the expiation was mentioned. Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Tell him to emancipate a slave." So, I said, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, he does not have a slave to emancipate." He said, "Then let him fast for two consecutive months." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, he is an old man and he is not able to fast." He said, "Then let him feed sixty poor people." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, he does not have anything to feed them." He said, "Then we will assist him with a measure of dates, and the measure is large enough to be equivalent to thirty Sa' [a unit of volume]." I said, "And I will assist him with another measure of dates." He said, "You have done well. Command him to give charity with it."  

دَخَلَ عَلِيَّ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ فَكَلِّمْنِي بِشَيْءٍ وَهُوَ فِيهِ كالضَّجِرِ فَرَادَدْتُهُ فَقَالَ أَنْتِ عَلِيَّ كَظَهْرِ أُمِّي ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَجَلَسَ ثُمَّ نَادَى قَوْمَهُ ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلَيَّ فَأَرَادَنِي عَلَى نَفْسِي فَامْتَنَعْتُ مِنْهُ فَشَادَدَنِي فَشَادَدْتُهُ فَغَلَبَتُهُ بِمَا تَغْلِبُ بِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ الرَّجُلَ الضَّعِيفَ فَقُلْتُ كَلَّا وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ خُوَيْلَةَ بِيَدِهِ لَا تَصِلُ إِلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَحْكُمَ اللهُ فِيَّ وفيكَ فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ مَا لَقِيتُ مِنْهُ فَقَالَ زَوْجُكِ وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ فَاتَّقِي اللهَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ {قَدْ سَمِعَ اللهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا وَتَشْتَكِي إِلَى اللهِ} حَتَّى بَلَغَ الْكَفَّارَةَ ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «مُرِيهِ فَلْيُعْتِقْ رَقَبَةً» فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ رَقَبَةً يَعْتِقُهَا قَالَ «فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ» قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ وَاللهِ مَا بِهِ صِيَامٌ قَالَ «فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا» قُلْتُ وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ مَا يُطْعِمُ قَالَ بَلْ سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ وَالْعَرَقُ مِكْتَلٌ يَتَّسِعُ ثَلَاثِينَ صَاعًا قُلْتُ وَأَنَا أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ قَالَ «قَدْ أَحْسَنْتِ فَمُرِيهِ فَلْيَتَصَدَّقْ بِهِ»  

[Machine] He approached me and spoke to me about something while he was in a state of irritation. I replied to him and he became angry and said, "You are like the back of my mother." Then he went out to his people's gathering and returned to me and tried to please me with himself, but I refused. He insisted, so I pushed him forcefully and overpowered him with what a weak man is overpowered by a woman. She said, so I said, "By the one in whose hand is the soul of Khawla, it will not reach me until Allah judges between me and you." So I went to the Prophet ﷺ to complain to him about what I had encountered. He said, "Fear Allah and treat your husband and your cousin well." She said, "I did not stop until Allah revealed: 'Indeed, Allah has heard the statement of her that disputes with you [Prophet] concerning her husband.'" (Quran 58:1) until the expiation was ordered. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Tell him to free a slave." She said, "By Allah, he does not possess a slave." He said, "Then let him fast for two consecutive months." She said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, he is an old man and cannot fast.'" He said, "Then let him feed sixty poor people." She said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, he does not have anything to feed them with.'" He said, "Yes, indeed, we will help him with a pile of dates. A mound of dates can accommodate thirty was." She said, "I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, can I help him with another mound of dates?'" He said, "You have done well in advising him. Let him give charity then. Allah knows best."  

دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ فَكَلَّمَنِي بِشَيْءٍ وَهُوَ فِيهِ كَالضَّجْرِ فَرَادَدْتُهُ فَغَضِبَ وَقَالَ أَنْتِ عَلَيَّ كَظَهْرِ أُمِّي ثُمَّ خَرَجَ إِلَى نَادِي قَوْمِهِ ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلِيَّ فَرَاوَدَنِي عَلَى نَفْسِي فَأَبَيْتُ فَشَادَّنِي فَشَادَدْتُهُ فَغَلَبْتُهُ بِمَا تَغْلِبُ بِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ الرَّجُلَ الضَّعِيفَ قَالَتْ فَقُلْتُ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ خُوَيْلَةَ بِيَدِهِ لَا تَصِلُ إِلِيَّ حَتَّى يَحْكُمَ اللهُ فِيَّ وَفِيكَ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ مَا لَقِيتُ فَقَالَ زَوْجُكِ وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ اتَّقِي اللهَ وَأَحْسِنِي صُحْبَتَهُ قَالَتْ فَمَا بَرِحْتُ حَتَّى أَنْزَلَ اللهُ ﷻ {قَدْ سَمِعَ اللهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا} [المجادلة 1] إِلَى الْكَفَّارَةِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ مُرِيهِ فَلْيُعْتِقْ رَقَبَةً قَالَتْ وَاللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ رَقَبَةٌ يَمْلِكُهَا قَالَ فَلْيَصُمْ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ مَا بِهِ مِنْ صِيَامٍ قَالَ فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا فَقُلْتُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللهِ مَا عِنْدَهُ مَا يُطْعِمُ قَالَ بَلَى سَنُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ وَالْعَرَقُ الْمِكْتَلُ يَسَعُ فِيهِ ثَلَاثِينَ صَاعًا مِنَ التَّمْرِ قَالَتْ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَأَنَا أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ قَالَ قَدْ أَحْسَنْتِ مُرِيهِ فَلْيَتَصَدَّقْ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ