#shame

If you don't feel shame then do whatever you like

bukhari:6120Aḥmad b. Yūnus > Zuhayr > Manṣūr > Ribʿī b. Ḥirāsh > Abū Masʿūd

The Prophet ﷺ said, "One of the sayings of the early Prophets which the people have got is: 'If you don't feel shy ˹from committing indiscretions˺, then do whatever you like.'"  

البخاري:٦١٢٠حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ حَدَّثَنَا مَنْصُورٌ عَنْ رِبْعِيِّ بْنِ حِرَاشٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ: «إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسُ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ الأُولَى: (إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِي فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ)۔»  


Watch yourself in front of Allah just like you watch yourself in front of a good person

سَعِيدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ الْأَزْدِيُّ

tabarani:5539al-Ḥusayn b. Isḥāq al-Tustarī > Yaʿqūb b. Saʿīd > ʿAbdullāh b. Mūsá > ʿAbd al-Ḥamīd b. Jaʿfar > Yazīd b. Abū Ḥabīb > Saʿīd b. Yazīd al-Azdī

that he asked the Prophet ﷺ, "Give me ˹some˺ advise." He said, "I advise you to be modest in front of Allah ﷻ just as you show modesty in front of a righteous man among your people."  

الطبراني:٥٥٣٩حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ التُّسْتَرِيُّ ثنا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُوسَى عَنْ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ بْنِ جَعْفَرٍ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ الْأَزْدِيِّ

أَنَّهُ قَالَ لِلنَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَوْصِنِي قَالَ «أُوصِيكَ أَنْ تَسْتَحِيَ مِنَ اللهِ ﷻ كَمَا تَسْتَحِي مِنَ الرَّجُلِ الصَّالِحِ مِنْ قَوْمِكَ»  

Have shyness in front of Allah just like you would be shy in front of good people

ahmad-zuhd:248ʿAbdullāh from my father > Ḥajjāj > Layth > Yazīd b. Abū Ḥabīb > Abū al-Jadh > Saʿīd b. Yazīd

that a man asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, "Give me ˹some˺ advise." He said, "I advise you to be modest in front of Allah ﷻ just as you show modesty in front of a righteous man among your people."  

الزهد لأحمد:٢٤٨حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ حَدَّثَنَا أبِي حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجٌ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثٌ حَدَّثَنِي يَزِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ أَبِي الْجَذِّ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَهُ يَقُولُ

إِنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ لِرَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَوْصِنِي قَالَ «أُوصِيكَ أَنْ تَسْتَحِيَ اللَّهَ ﷻ كَمَا تَسْتَحِي رَجُلًا صَالِحًا مِنْ قَوْمِكَ»