[Machine] There was something between me and my wife that doesn't usually exist between people. She said, "If what is in your hands is under my control, then you would know what to do." He responded, "Indeed, what is in my hands is in your hands as well." She said, "Then you are divorced three times." He said, "I view it as one and you have more right to return." So, he sought the guidance of Caliph Umar and informed him of the situation. Umar then narrated the story to him and said, "Allah has dealt with men and as men they intend to do what Allah has allowed them to do, but they delegate it to women. By doing so, they mix it with soil. What do you say?" He replied, "I view it as one and he is more entitled to it." Umar said, "And I see it that way too. If you saw it differently, I would have concluded that you made a mistake." Mansoor said, "So, I said to Ibrahim, Ibn Abbas used to say, 'Allah made her statement a mistake if she said, 'I have divorced myself.' Ibrahim said, 'They are equal.'"
كَانَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِي مَا يَكُونُ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ فَقَالَتْ لَوْ أَنَّ الَّذِي بِيَدِكَ مِنْ أَمْرِي بِيَدِي لَعَلِمْتَ كَيْفَ أَصْنَعُ فَقَالَ فَإِنَّ الَّذِي بِيَدِي مِنْ أَمْرِكِ بِيَدِكِ قَالَتْ فَأَنْتَ طَالِقٌ ثَلَاثًا قَالَ «أُرَاهَا وَاحِدَةً وَأَنْتَ أَحَقُّ بِالرَّجْعَةِ» وَسَأَلْقَى أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عُمَرَ فَلَقِيَهُ فَقَصَّ عَلَيْهِ الْقِصَّةَ فَقَالَ «فَعَلَ اللهُ بِالرِّجَالِ وَفَعَلَ اللهُ بِالرِّجَالِ يَعْمِدُونَ إِلَى مَا جَعَلَهُ اللهُ بِأَيْدِيهِمْ فَيَجْعَلُونَهُ بِأَيْدِي النِّسَاءِ بِفِيهَا التُّرَابُ مَاذَا قُلْتَ؟» قَالَ قُلْتُ «أُرَاهَا وَاحِدَةً وَهُوَ أَحَقُّ بِهَا» قَالَ «وَأَنَا أَرَى ذَلِكَ وَلَوْ رَأَيْتَ غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ رَأَيْتُ أَنَّكَ لَمْ تُصِبْ» قَالَ مَنْصُورٌ فَقُلْتُ لِإِبْرَاهِيمَ فَإِنَّ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ كَانَ يَقُولُ خَطَّأَ اللهُ نَوْءَهَا لَوْ كَانَتْ قَالَتْ قَدْ طَلَّقْتُ نَفْسِي قَالَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ هُمَا سَوَاءٌ