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tabarani:4194[Chain 1] ʿUbayd b. Ghannām > Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah [Chain 2] al-Ḥusayn b. Isḥāq al-Tustarī > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Yazīd b. Hārūn > Mustalim b. Saʿīd > Khubayb b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Khubayb from his father from his grandfather

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ went out seeking a face, so I and another man from my people went with him. We said, "We dislike that our people witness something that we do not witness with them." He asked, "Have you both embraced Islam?" We replied, "No." He said, "Then we do not seek assistance from pagans." We both embraced Islam and witnessed with him. Afterward, a man from the pagans struck me on my shoulder, so I killed him. Then I married his daughter, and she used to say, "May you never be deprived of a man who wears this turban!", and I used to reply, "May you never be deprived of a man who made your father hasten towards Hell."  

الطبراني:٤١٩٤حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ غَنَّامٍ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ التُّسْتَرِيُّ ثنا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ قَالَا ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ ثنا مُسْتَلِمُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ثنا خُبَيْبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ خُبَيْبٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

خَرَجَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ يُرِيدُ وَجْهًا فَأَتَيْتُ أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ مِنْ قَوْمِي فَقُلْنَا إِنَّا نَكْرَهُ أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا لَا نَشْهَدُهُ مَعَهُمْ فَقَالَ «أَسْلَمْتُمَا؟» فَقُلْنَا لَا قَالَ «فَإِنَّا لَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ» قَالَ فَأَسْلَمْنَا وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَهُ فَضَرَبَنِي رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى عَاتِقِي فَقَتَلْتُهُ وَتَزَوَّجْتُ ابْنَتَهُ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ وَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتَ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ فَأَقُولُ لَهَا لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا عَجَّلَ أَبَاكَ إِلَى النَّارِ  


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ahmad:15763Yazīd > al-Mustalim b. Saʿīd > Khubayb Ibn ʿAbd al-Raḥman from his father from his grandfather

[Machine] I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ while he intended to go on a military expedition. I and another man from my people had not embraced Islam, so we said, "We feel ashamed to witness our people doing something that we do not witness with them." He asked, "Have you both embraced Islam?" We replied, "No." He said, "Then we do not seek the assistance of polytheists against polytheists." So we embraced Islam and witnessed the military expedition with him. I killed a man and got injured by a strike. Later, I married his daughter. She would often say, "You did not spare a man and then you wore this shawl." So I would reply, "You did not spare a man and rushed your father to Hell."  

أحمد:١٥٧٦٣حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا الْمُسْتَلِمُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ حَدَّثَنَا خُبَيْبُ ابْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَهُوَ يُرِيدُ غَزْوًا أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ مِنْ قَوْمِي وَلَمْ نُسْلِمْ فَقُلْنَا إِنَّا نَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا لَا نَشْهَدُهُ مَعَهُمْ قَالَ أَوَأَسْلَمْتُمَا؟ قُلْنَا لَا قَالَ فَلَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَالَ فَأَسْلَمْنَا وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَهُ فَقَتَلْتُ رَجُلًا وَضَرَبَنِي ضَرْبَةً وَتَزَوَّجْتُ بِابْنَتِهِبَعْدَ ذَلِكَ فَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتَ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ فَأَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا عَجَّلَ أَبَاكِ النَّارَ  

hakim:2563Mukram b. Aḥmad al-Qāḍī > ʿAbdullāh b. Rawḥ al-Madāynī > Yazīd b. Hārūn

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ went out on one of his expeditions, and I and another man went to meet him before embracing Islam. We said, "We feel embarrassed to witness a scene where our people are being fought." He said, "Have you both embraced Islam?" We replied, "No." He said, "Then we do not seek the assistance of pagans against pagans." So we embraced Islam and witnessed alongside the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . I killed a man, and the man struck me. I then married his daughter, who would say, "May you never be deprived of a husband who fought vigorously like this man." I would respond, "May you never be deprived of a husband who rushed your father to the Hellfire."  

الحاكم:٢٥٦٣حَدَّثَنَا مُكْرَمُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الْقَاضِي ثنا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ رَوْحٍ الْمَدَاينِيُّ ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ أَنْبَأَ الْمُسْتَلِمُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الثَّقَفِيُّ عَنْ خُبَيْبِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

خَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي بَعْضِ غَزَوَاتِهِ فَأَتَيْتُهُ أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ قَبْلَ أَنْ نُسْلِمَ فَقُلْنَا إِنَّا نَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا فَقَالَ «أَأَسْلَمْتُمَا؟» قُلْنَا لَا قَالَ «فَإِنَّا لَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى الْمُشْرِكِينَ» فَأَسْلَمْنَا وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَتَلْتُ رَجُلًا وَضَرَبَنِي الرَّجُلُ ضَرْبَةً فَتَزَوَّجْتُ ابْنَتَهُ فَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتُ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ فَقُلْتُ لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا عَجَّلَ أَبَاكِ إِلَى النَّارِ  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ» وَخُبَيْبُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ جَدُّهُ صَحَابِيٌّ مَعْرُوفٌ «وَلَهُ شَاهِدٌ عَنْ أَبِي حُمَيْدٍ السَّاعِدِيِّ» وجد خبيب بن أسود بن حارثة صحابي
bayhaqi:17879Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Mukram b. Aḥmad al-Qāḍī > ʿAbdullāh b. Rawḥ al-Madāʾinī > Yazīd b. Hārūn

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ went out on one of his expeditions, so I approached him with another man before I embraced Islam. We said, "We feel ashamed that our people witness such a scene, so we will not witness it." He asked, "Have you both embraced Islam?" We answered, "No." He said, "Verily, we do not seek assistance from polytheists against other polytheists." So we embraced Islam and witnessed alongside the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . I killed a man and the man struck me. Then, I married his daughter. She used to say, "I have never seen a man more generous than him." I said, "I have never seen a man more hasty to send his father to the Hellfire. His grandfather is Hubayb bin Yasaf, or it is said Asaf, who had the companionship of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ ."  

البيهقي:١٧٨٧٩وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ ثنا مُكْرَمُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الْقَاضِي ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ رَوْحٍ الْمَدَائِنِيُّ ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ أنبأ الْمُسْتَلِمُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الثَّقَفِيُّ عَنْ خُبَيْبِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

خَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فِي بَعْضِ غَزَوَاتِهِ فَأَتَيْتُهُ أَنَا وَرَجُلٌ قَبْلَ أَنْ نُسْلِمَ فَقُلْنَا إِنَّا نَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ يَشْهَدَ قَوْمُنَا مَشْهَدًا فَلَا نَشْهَدُهُ قَالَ أَسْلَمْتُمَا؟ قُلْنَا لَا قَالَ فَإِنَّا لَا نَسْتَعِينُ بِالْمُشْرِكِينَ عَلَى الْمُشْرِكِينَ فَأَسْلَمْنَا وَشَهِدْنَا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَتَلْتُ رَجُلًا وَضَرَبَنِي الرَّجُلُ ضَرْبَةً فَتَزَوَّجْتُ ابْنَتَهُ فَكَانَتْ تَقُولُ لَا عَدِمْتُ رَجُلًا وَشَّحَكَ هَذَا الْوِشَاحَ فَقُلْتُ لَا عَدِمْتِ رَجُلًا أَعْجَلَ أَبَاكِ إِلَى النَّارِ جَدُّهُ خُبَيْبُ بْنُ يَسَافٍ وَيُقَالُ إِسَافٌ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ