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tabarani:22011Mūsá b. Hārūn > Abū al-Rabīʿ al-Zahrānī > Ḥammād b. Zayd > Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd > Bashīr b. Yasār > Ḥuṣayn b. Miḥṣan from his aunt

[Machine] She came to the Prophet ﷺ and he said, "Do you have a husband?" She said, "Yes." He said, "How are you to him?" She said, "I do not refuse him except for what I am unable to do." He said, "Know that he is your paradise and your Hellfire."  

الطبراني:٢٢٠١١حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ هَارُونَ ثنا أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ الزَّهْرَانِيُّ ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بَشِيرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ عَنْ عَمَّتِهِ

أَنَّهَا أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ أَمَا لَكِ بَعْلٌ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ كَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوَ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ اعْلَمِي أَنَّهُ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ  


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ahmad:19003Yazīd b. Hārūn > Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd > Bushayr b. Yasār > al-Ḥuṣayn b. Miḥṣan

[Machine] His aunt came to the Prophet ﷺ with a need, and when she finished her need, the Prophet ﷺ asked her, "Are you married?" She replied, "Yes." He asked her, "How are you to him?" She said, "I only fulfill what I am unable to do." He said, "Then see where you are regarding him, for indeed he is your paradise and your fire."  

أحمد:١٩٠٠٣حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنِ الْحُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ

أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فِي حَاجَةٍ فَفَرَغَتْ مِنْ حَاجَتِهَا فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَذَاتُ زَوْجٍ أَنْتِ؟ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ كَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ قَالَ فَانْظُرِي أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ  

bayhaqi:14706Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū Bakr b. Isḥāq al-Faqīh > Bishr b. Mūsá > al-Ḥumaydī > Sufyān > Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd > Bushayr b. Yasār > Ḥuṣayn b. Miḥṣan from my aunt

[Machine] I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a need, and he said: "Is this your husband's complaint?" I said: "Yes." He said: "How are you with him?" She said: "I do not leave him except for what I am unable to do." He said: "So where are you from him? Verily, he is your paradise and your hellfire."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْفَقِيهُ أنا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُوسَى نا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ نا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَتْنِي عَمَّتِي قَالَتْ

أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فِي بَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ قَالَ أَيْ هَذِهِ أَذَاتُ بَعْلٍ أَنْتِ؟ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَكَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ قَالَ فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ