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tabarani:19998 – [Chain 1] ʿUbayd b. Ghannām > Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah [Chain 2] al-Ḥusayn b. Isḥāq > Yaḥyá al-Ḥimmānī And ʿUthmān > Sufyān b. ʿUyaynah > Ibn Abū Najīḥ from his father > ʿUbayd b. ʿUmayr

[Machine] Um Salama, when Abu Salama died in Medina, I said, "I feel a sense of displacement in a foreign land, where I will grieve for him in a way that people will talk about." She said, "Indeed, I felt the same way when a woman from the countryside came to visit me and the Messenger of Allah greeted her saying, 'Do you want to invite the devil into a house from which Allah has already expelled him twice?' So I left her and did not cry."  

الطبراني:١٩٩٩٨ – حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ غَنَّامٍ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا يَحْيَى الْحِمَّانِيُّ وَعُثْمَانُ قَالُوا ثنا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ قَالَ قَالَتْ

أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ بِالْمَدِينَةِ قُلْتُ غَرَبَتْ فِي أَرْضٍ غُرْبَةً لَأَبْكِيَنَّهُ بُكَاءً يُتَحَدَّثُ عَنْهُ قَالَتْ فَإِنِّي لَكَذَلِكَ إِذْ أَتَتْنِي امْرَأَةٌ تُسْعِدُنِي مِنَ الصَّعِيدِ فَاسْتَقْبَلَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تُدْخِلِي الشَّيْطَانَ بَيْتًا قَدْ أَخْرَجَهُ اللهُ مِنْهُ مَرَّتَيْنِ» قَالَتْ فَتَرَكْتُهُ وَلَمْ أَبْكِهِ  

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muslim:922 – Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah And Ibn Numayr And ʾIsḥāq b. Ibrāhīm > Ibn ʿUyaynah > Ibn Numayr > Sufyān > Ibn Abū Najīḥ from his father > ʿUbayd b. ʿUmayr

When Abu Salama died I said: I am a stranger in a strange land; I shall weep for him in a manner that would be talked of. I made preparation for weeping for him when a woman from the upper side of the city came there who intended to help me (in weeping). She happened to come across the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he said: Do you intend to bring the devil into a house from which Allah has twice driven him out? I (Umm Salama), therefore, refrained from weeping and I did not weep.  

مسلم:٩٢٢ – وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ وَابْنُ نُمَيْرٍ وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ كُلُّهُمْ عَنِ ابْنِ عُيَيْنَةَ قَالَ ابْنُ نُمَيْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ قَالَ قَالَتْ

أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ قُلْتُ غَرِيبٌ وَفِي أَرْضِ غُرْبَةٍ لأَبْكِيَنَّهُ بُكَاءً يُتَحَدَّثُ عَنْهُ فَكُنْتُ قَدْ تَهَيَّأْتُ لِلْبُكَاءِ عَلَيْهِ إِذْ أَقْبَلَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الصَّعِيدِ تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسْعِدَنِي فَاسْتَقْبَلَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَقَالَ أَتُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تُدْخِلِي الشَّيْطَانَ بَيْتًا أَخْرَجَهُ اللَّهُ مِنْهُ مَرَّتَيْنِ فَكَفَفْتُ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ فَلَمْ أَبْكِ  

ahmad:26472 – Sufyān b. ʿUyaynah > Ibn Abū Najīḥ from his father > ʿUbayd b. ʿUmayr > Um Salamah

[Machine] When Abu Salamah died, I said, "He died as a stranger in a foreign land." So I started crying, and then a woman came wanting to comfort me from the desert. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Do you want to invite Satan into a house that Allah has kept him away from?" She replied, "So I did not cry for him."  

أحمد:٢٦٤٧٢ – حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ قَالَتْ

لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ قُلْتُ غَرِيبٌ وَمَاتَ بِأَرْضِ غُرْبَةٍ فَأَفَضْتُ بُكَاءً فَجَاءَتْ امْرَأَةٌ تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسْعِدَنِي مِنَ الصَّعِيدِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تُدْخِلِي الشَّيْطَانَ بَيْتًا قَدْ أَخْرَجَهُ اللهُ ﷻ مِنْهُ؟ قَالَتْ فَلَمْ أَبْكِ عَلَيْهِ  

ibnhibban:3144 – ʿImrān b. Mūsá b. Mujāshiʿ > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Sufyān > Ibn Abū Najīḥ from his father > ʿUbayd b. ʿUmayr

[Machine] "When Abu Salama died, Umm Salama said, 'I am a stranger in a land of strangeness, I will cry in a way that people will talk about.' And I had prepared myself to cry when a woman from the Mus'ad tribe came to console me. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ met her and said, 'Do you want to let the Shaitan enter another house from which he has been expelled?' Hearing this, I stopped crying and did not cry anymore."  

ابن حبّان:٣١٤٤ – أَخْبَرَنَا عِمْرَانُ بْنُ مُوسَى بْنِ مُجَاشِعٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي نَجِيحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ قَالَ قَالَتْ

أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ قُلْتُ غَرِيبٌ فِي أَرْضِ غُرْبَةٍ لَأَبْكِيَنَّ بُكَاءً يُتَحَدَّثُ عَنْهُ وَكُنْتُ قَدْ هَيَّأْتُ الْبُكَاءُ عَلَيْهِ إِذْ أَقْبَلَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْمُسْعِدَاتِ تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسْعِدَنِي فَاسْتَقْبَلَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَقَالَ «تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تُدْخِلِي الشَّيْطَانَ بَيْتًا أَخْرَجَهُ اللَّهُ مِنْهُ» قَالَتْ فَكَفَفْتُ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ وَلَمْ أَبْكِ