AHMAD 13487:
from Anas b. Mālik —
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade visiting graves, eating the meat of sacrificial animals after three days, drinking intoxicants in containers made of gourd, hollowed stones, varnished pots, and dried animal droppings. He said, "After that, I was forbidden from three things, and then it appeared to me that I forbade you from visiting graves. Then it appeared to me that it softens the heart, brings tears to the eyes, and reminds of the Hereafter, so visit them and do not say anything offensive. And I forbade you from eating the meat of sacrificial animals after three nights, and then it appeared to me that people treat their guests kindly and keep food for their absentees, so keep what you wish. And I forbid you from drinking intoxicants in these vessels, so drink what you wish, but do not drink something that causes intoxication. Whoever wants can pour his drink into a leather skin."
أحمد ١٣٤٨٧:
عن انس بن مالك —
نَهَى رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ وَعَنْ لُحُومِ الْأَضَاحِيِّ بَعْدَ ثَلَاثٍ وَعَنِ النَّبِيذِ فِي الدُّبَّاءِ وَالنَّقِيرِ وَالْحَنْتَمِ وَالْمُزَفَّتِ قَالَ ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ أَلَا إِنِّي قَدْ كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ ثَلَاثٍ ثُمَّ بَدَا لِي فِيهِنَّ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ ثُمَّ بَدَا لِي أَنَّهَا تُرِقُّ الْقَلْبَ وَتُدْمِعُ الْعَيْنَ وَتُذَكِّرُ الْآخِرَةَ فَزُورُوهَا وَلَا تَقُولُوا هُجْرًا وَنَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ لُحُومِ الْأَضَاحِيِّ أَنْ تَأْكُلُوهَا فَوْقَ ثَلَاثِ لَيَالٍ ثُمَّ بَدَا لِي أَنَّ النَّاسَ يُتْحِفُونَ ضَيْفَهُمْ وَيُخَبِّئُونَ لِغَائِبِهِمْ فَأَمْسِكُوا مَا شِئْتُمْ وَنَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنِ النَّبِيذِ فِي هَذِهِ الْأَوْعِيَةِ فَاشْرَبُوا بِمَا شِئْتُمْ وَلَا تَشْرَبُوا مُسْكِرًا مَنْ شَاءَ أَوْكَى سِقَاءَهُ عَلَى إِثْمٍ
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