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suyuti:656-3bAsmāʾ b. ʿUmays
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"عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ قَالَتْ: لَمَّا أُصِيبَ جَعْفَر وَأَصْحَاُبهُ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَقَدْ عَجَنْتُ عَجِينِي، وَدَهَنْتُ صِبْيَانِي وَغَسَلْتُهُمْ وَنَظَّفْتُهُمْ فَقَالَ: إِيتِنِي بِبَنِي جَعْفرٍ فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِهِمْ فَشَمَّهُمْ وَقَبَّلَهُمْ فَذَرَفَتْ عَيْنَا رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ ، فَقُلْتُ: بِأَبِي وَأُمِّي مَا يُبْكِيكَ؟ أَبَلَغَكَ عَنْ جَعْفَرٍ وَأَصْحَابِهِ شَيْءٌ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ أُصِيبُوا فِي هَذَا اليَوْمِ، فَبَكَيْتُ، فَقَالَ لِي: يَا أَسْمَاءُ: لَا تَضرِبِي صَدْرًا، وَلَا تَقُولِي هُجْرًا، فَدَخَلَتْ فَاطِمَةُ وَهِي تَقُولُ: وَاعَمَّاهُ، فَقَالَ رَسُول اللهِ ﷺ : عَلَى مِثْلِ جَعْفَرٍ فَلْتَبْكِ البَاكِيَةُ وَقَالَ رَسُول اللهِ ﷺ : لَا تَفْعَلُوا عَلَى آلِ جَعْفَرٍ أَنْ تَصْنَعُوا لَهُمْ طَعَامًا، فَإِنَّهُمْ قَدْ شُغِلُوا بِأَمْرِ صَاحِبِهِمْ".  

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ahmad:27086Yaʿqūb from my father > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq > ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Bakr > Um ʿĪsá al-Jazzār > Um Jaʿfar b. Muḥammad b. Jaʿfar b. Abū Ṭālib > Jaddatihā Asmāʾ b. ʿUmays

[Machine] When Jafar and his companions were injured, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ came to me while I had prepared forty containers, kneaded the dough, washed the children, anointed them with oil, and cleaned them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, "Bring me the children of Jafar." So, I brought them to him and he smelled them and his eyes shed tears. I said, "O Messenger of Allah, may my father and mother be sacrificed for you, what makes you cry? Did you receive news about Jafar and his companions?" He replied, "Yes, they have been injured today." I said, "Then, I stood up and shouted, and the women gathered around me. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ left for his family and said, 'Do not neglect the family of Jafar and do not prepare food for them, for they have been preoccupied with the matter of their companion.'"  

أحمد:٢٧٠٨٦حَدَّثَنَا يَعْقُوبُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ عَنْ أُمِّ عِيسَى الْجَزَّارِ عَنْ أُمِّ جَعْفَرٍ بِنْتِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ عَنْ جَدَّتِهَا أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ قَالَتْ

لَمَّا أُصِيبَ جَعْفَرٌ وَأَصْحَابُهُ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَقَدْ دَبَغْتُ أَرْبَعِينَ مَنِيئَةً وَعَجَنْتُ عَجِينِي وَغَسَّلْتُ بَنِيَّ وَدَهَنْتُهُمْ وَنَظَّفْتُهُمْ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ ائْتِينِي بِبَنِي جَعْفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِهِمْ فَشَمَّهُمْ وَذَرَفَتْ عَيْنَاهُ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ بِأَبِي أَنْتَ وَأُمِّي مَا يُبْكِيكَ؟ أَبَلَغَكَ عَنْ جَعْفَرٍ وَأَصْحَابِهِ شَيْءٌ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ أُصِيبُواهَذَا الْيَوْمَ قَالَتْ فَقُمْتُ أَصِيحُ وَاجْتَمَعَ إِلَيَّ النِّسَاءُ وَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ فَقَالَ لَا تُغْفِلُوا آلَ جَعْفَرٍ مِنْ أَنْ تَصْنَعُوا لَهُمْ طَعَامًا فَإِنَّهُمْ قَدْ شُغِلُوا بِأَمْرِ صَاحِبِهِمْ  

tabarani:20846ʿAlī b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz > Aḥmad b. Muḥammad b. Ayyūb Ṣāḥib al-Maghāzī > Ibrāhīm b. Saʿd > Muḥammad b. Isḥāq > ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Bakr > Um ʿĪsá > Um Jaʿfar b. Muḥammad b. Jaʿfar b. Abū Ṭālib > Jaddatihā Asmāʾ b. ʿUmays

[Machine] When Ja'far and his companions were killed, Ali entered upon the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and I had prepared their dough, washed their bodies, anointed them, and cleaned them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Bring me the children of Ja'far." I brought them to him and he smelled them and tears came from his eyes. I said, "O Messenger of Allah, may my parents be sacrificed for you, what makes you cry? Did something happen to Ja'far and his companions?" He said, "Yes, they were martyred today." I got up and shouted, and the women gathered, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ went out to his family and said, "Do not let the family of Ja'far be neglected to the point that you do not prepare food for them, for they are preoccupied with the matter of their companion."  

الطبراني:٢٠٨٤٦حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَيُّوبَ صَاحِبُ الْمَغَازِي ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ عَنْ أُمِّ عِيسَى عَنْ أُمِّ جَعْفَرٍ بِنْتِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ عَنْ جَدَّتِهَا أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ قَالَتْ

لَمَّا أُصِيبَ جَعْفَرٌ وَأَصْحَابُهُ دَخَلَ عَلِيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَقَدْ عَجَنْتُ عَجِينَهُمْ وَغَسَلَتُ بَنِيَّ وَدَهَنْتُهُمْ وَنَظَّفْتُهُمْ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «ائْتِينِي بِبَنِي جَعْفَرٍ» قَالَتْ فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِهِمْ فَشَمَّهُمْ وَذَرَفَتْ عَيْنَاهُ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ بِأَبِي وَأُمِّي مَا يُبْكِيكَ؟ أَبَلَغَكَ شَيْءٌ عَنْ جَعْفَرٍ وَأَصْحَابِهِ؟ قَالَ «نَعَمْ أُصِيبُوا هَذَا الْيَوْمَ» قَالَتْ فَقُمْتُ أَصِيحُ وَاجْتَمَعَ إِلَى النِّسَاءِ وَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ فَقَالَ «لَا تُغْفِلُوا آلَ جَعْفَرٍ مِنْ أَنْ تَصْنَعُوا لَهُمْ طَعَامًا فَإِنَّهُمْ قَدْ شُغِلُوا بِأَمْرِ صَاحِبِهِمْ»