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suyuti:150-2bʿĀmir b. Saʿd > Dakhalt
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"عَنْ عَامِرِ بْنِ سَعْد قَالَ: دَخَلْتُ عَلَى قَرَظَة (*) بْنِ كَعْبٍ وَثَابِت بْنِ يَزِيدَ وَأَبِى مَسْعُودٍ الأَنْصَارِيِّ، وَإذَا عِنْدَهُمْ جَوَارِى وَأَشْيَاء، فَقُلْتُ: تَفْعَلُونَ هَذَا وَأَنْتُمْ أَصْحَابُ مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ ؟ ! فَقَالُوا: إِنْ كُنْتَ تَسْمَعُ وَإِلاَّ فَامْضِ، فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ الله ﷺ رَخَّصَ لَنَا فِى اللَّهْوِ عِنْدَ الْعُرْسِ، وَفِى الْبُكَاءِ عِنْدَ الْمَوْتِ".  

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الحاكم:٣٤٨حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ عِيسَى بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ نَجْدَةَ ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ ثنا إِسْرَائِيلُ عَنْ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي زُرْعَةَ عَنْ عَامِرِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ الْبَجَلِيِّ قَالَ

دَخَلْتُ عَلَى قَرَظَةَ بْنِ كَعْبٍ وَأَبِي مَسْعُودٍ وَزَيْدِ بْنِ ثَابِتٍ فَإِذَا عِنْدَهُمْ جَوَارِي يُغَنِّينَ فَقُلْتُ لَهُمْ أَتَفْعَلُونَ هَذَا وَأَنْتُمْ أَصْحَابُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالُوا «إِنْ كُنْتَ تَسْمَعُ وَإِلَّا فَامْضِ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ رَخَّصَ لَنَا فِي اللَّهْوِ فِي الْعُرْسِ وَفِي الْبُكَاءِ عِنْدَ الْمَيِّتِ»