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muslim:2449aAḥmad b. ʿAbdullāh b. Yūnus And Qutaybah b. Saʿīd > al-Layth b. Saʿd > Ibn Yūnus > Layth > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUbaydullāh b. Abū Mulaykah al-Qurashī al-Taymī

The sons of Hisham b. Mughira have asked my permission to marry their daughter with 'Ali b. Abi Talib (that refers to the daughter of Abu Jahl for whom 'All had sent a proposal for marriage). But I would not allow them, I would not allow them, I would not allow them (and the only alternative possible is) that 'Ali should divorce my daughter (and then marry their daughter), for my daughter is part of me. He who disturbs her in fact disturbs me and he who offends her offends me.  

مسلم:٢٤٤٩aحَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يُونُسَ وَقُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ كِلاَهُمَا عَنِ اللَّيْثِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ قَالَ ابْنُ يُونُسَ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثٌ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ الْقُرَشِيُّ التَّيْمِيُّ

أَنَّحَدَّثَهُ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُحِبَّ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا ابْنَتِي بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا  


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bukhari:5230Qutaybah > al-Layth > Ibn Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

I heard Messenger of Allah ﷺ who was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to ʿAli bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless ʿAli bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me."  

البخاري:٥٢٣٠حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ وَهْوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُوا فِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يُرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا هَكَذَا قَالَ  

abudawud:2071Aḥmad b. Yūnus And Qutaybah b. Saʿīd al-Maʿná > Aḥmad > al-Layth > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUbaydullāh b. Abū Mulaykah al-Qurashī al-Taymī > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

Al Miswar bin Makramah said that he heard the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ say on the pulpit Banu Hashim bin Al Mughirah sought permission from me to marry their daughter to ‘Ali bin Abi Talib. But I do not permit, again, I do not permit, again, I do not permit except that Ibn Abi Talib divorces my daughter and marries their daughter. My daughter is my part, what makes her uneasy makes me uneasy and what troubles her troubles me. The full information rests with the tradition narrated by Ahmad.  

أبو داود:٢٠٧١حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ وَقُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الْمَعْنَى قَالَ أَحْمَدُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ الْقُرَشِيُّ التَّيْمِيُّ أَنَّ الْمِسْوَرَ بْنَ مَخْرَمَةَ حَدَّثَهُ

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ مِنْ عَلِيِّ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا ابْنَتِي بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يُرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا وَالإِخْبَارُ فِي حَدِيثِ أَحْمَدَ  

tirmidhi:3867Qutaybah > al-Layth > Ibn Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

"While he was on the Minbar, I heard the Prophet ﷺ saying: 'Indeed Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughirah asked me if they could marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abi Talib. But I do not allow it, I do not allow it, I do not allow it - unless 'Ali bin Abi Talib wishes to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter, because she is a part of me. I am displeased by what displeases her, and I am harmed by what harms her."  

الترمذي:٣٨٦٧حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَقُولُ وَهُوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي فِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّهَا بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا  

قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَقَدْ رَوَاهُ عَمْرُو بْنُ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ نَحْوَ حَدِيث اللَّيْث
ibnmajah:1998ʿĪsá b. Ḥammād al-Miṣrī > al-Layth b. Saʿd > ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

"I heard the Messenger of Allah when he was on the pulpit, say: 'Banu Hisham bin Mughirah asked me for permission to marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abu Talib, but I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, unless 'Ali bin Abu Talib wants to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter, for she is a part of me, and what bothers her bothers me, and what upsets her upsets me."  

ابن ماجة:١٩٩٨حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ حَمَّادٍ الْمِصْرِيُّ أَنْبَأَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَهُوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ لاَ آذَنُ لَهُمْ إِلاَّ أَنْ يُرِيدَ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا  

ahmad:18926Hāshim b. al-Qāsim > al-Layth / Ibn Saʿd > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUbaydullāh b. Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

"I heard the Messenger of Allah when he was on the pulpit, say: 'Banu Hisham bin Mughirah asked me for permission to marry their daughter to 'Ali bin Abu Talib, but I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, and I will not give them permission, unless 'Ali bin Abu Talib wants to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter, for she is a part of me, and what bothers her bothers me, and what upsets her upsets me." (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1998)   

أحمد:١٨٩٢٦حَدَّثَنَا هَاشِمُ بْنُ الْقَاسِمِ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ سَعْدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَهُوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي فِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلَا آذَنُ لَهُمْ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَا آذَنُ فَإِنَّمَا ابْنَتِي بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يُرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا  

ذِكْرُ زَجْرِ الْمُصْطَفَى ﷺ أَنْ يَنْكِحَ عَلِيٌّ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ ابْنَتِهِ

ibnhibban:6955al-Faḍl b. al-Ḥubāb > Abū al-Walīd al-Ṭayālisī > Layth b. Saʿd > Ibn Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

Al Miswar bin Makramah said that he heard the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ say on the pulpit Banu Hashim bin Al Mughirah sought permission from me to marry their daughter to ‘Ali bin Abi Talib. But I do not permit, again, I do not permit, again, I do not permit except that Ibn Abi Talib divorces my daughter and marries their daughter. My daughter is my part, what makes her uneasy makes me uneasy and what troubles her troubles me. The full information rests with the tradition narrated by Ahmad. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2071)   

ابن حبّان:٦٩٥٥أَخْبَرَنَا الْفَضْلُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيًّا عَلَى ابْنَتِي فَلَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ إِلَّا أَنْ يُحِبَّ عَلِيٌّ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا ابْنَتِي بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا»  

nasai-kubra:8465Qutaybah b. Saʿīd > al-Layth > Ibn Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

I heard Messenger of Allah ﷺ who was on the pulpit, saying, "Banu Hisham bin Al-Mughira have requested me to allow them to marry their daughter to ʿAli bin Abu Talib, but I don't give permission, and will not give permission unless ʿAli bin Abi Talib divorces my daughter in order to marry their daughter, because Fatima is a part of my body, and I hate what she hates to see, and what hurts her, hurts me." (Using translation from Bukhārī 5230)  

الكبرى للنسائي:٨٤٦٥أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَهُوَ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي فِي أَنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ إِلَّا أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ فَإِنَّمَا هِيَ بِضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا»  

nasai-kubra:8466Aḥmad b. Sulaymān > Yaḥyá b. Ādam > Bishr b. al-Sarī > Layth b. Saʿd > Ibn Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ giving a sermon in Mecca, and then he said: "The Bani Hashim asked me for permission to marry their daughter to Ali, but I did not give permission. I will not give permission unless the son of Abu Talib wants to separate from my daughter and marry their daughter." Then he said: "Indeed, Fatimah is part of me and hurts me if she is hurt and worries me if she is worried. It is not permissible for him to combine the daughter of the enemy of Allah with the daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ."  

الكبرى للنسائي:٨٤٦٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ آدَمَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ الْمِسْوَرَ بْنَ مَخْرَمَةَ يَقُولُ

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ بِمَكَّةَ يَخْطُبُ ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ بَنِي هِشَامٍ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي فِي أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيًّا وَإِنِّي لَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ إِلَّا أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُفَارِقَ ابْنَتِي وَأَنْ يَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ» ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ فَاطِمَةَ مُضْغَةٌ أَوْ بِضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا وَيَرِيبُنِي مَا أَرَابَهَا وَمَا كَانَ لَهُ أَنْ يَجْمَعَ بَيْنَ بِنْتِ عَدُوِّ اللهِ وَبَيْنَ ابْنَةِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ»  

bayhaqi:14798Abū al-Ḥasan ʿAlī b. Aḥmad b. ʿAbdān > Aḥmad b. ʿUbayd al-Ṣaffār > Aḥmad b. Ibrāhīm b. Milḥān > Yaḥyá b. Bukayr > al-Layth > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUbaydullāh b. Abū Mulaykah > al-Miswar b. Makhramah

[Machine] I heard the Prophet ﷺ say: "The Banu Mughira asked me for permission to marry their daughter to Ali ibn Abi Talib, but I did not grant permission. I did not grant permission. I did not grant permission, unless Ibn Abi Talib wants to divorce my daughter and marry their daughter. Verily, she is a piece of me that makes me doubtful about what pleases her and harms me in what harms her." And Abu Al-Hasan Ahmad ibn Ubaid informed us that Abbas ibn Al-Fadl Al-Asfati informed us that Abu Al-Walid informed us that Al-Laith mentioned it in meaning, except that he did not mention his statement "that makes me doubtful about what pleases her."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٩٨أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الصَّفَّارُ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ مِلْحَانَ نا يَحْيَى بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ نا اللَّيْثُ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنِ الْمِسْوَرِ بْنِ مَخْرَمَةَ قَالَ

سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِنَّ بَنِي الْمُغِيرَةِ اسْتَأْذَنُونِي أَنْ يَنْكِحُوا ابْنَتَهُمْ عَلِيَّ بْنَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَلَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ ثُمَّ لَا آذَنُ إِلَّا أَنْ يُرِيدَ ابْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ ابْنَتِي وَيَنْكِحَ ابْنَتَهُمْ إِنَّمَا هِيَ بَضْعَةٌ مِنِّي يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا وَيُؤْذِينِي مَا آذَاهَا 14799 وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ نا عَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْأَسْفَاطِيُّ نا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ نا اللَّيْثُ فَذَكَرَهُ بِمَعْنَاهُ إِلَّا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَذْكُرْ قَوْلَهُ يَرِيبُنِي مَا رَابَهَا  

رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْوَلِيدِ وَقُتَيْبَةَ وَرَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ عَنْ قُتَيْبَةَ عَنِ اللَّيْثِ
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السيوطي:٦٤١٧a

"إِنَّ بَنى هِشَام بن المغيرة اسْتأذَنُونِى في أنْ يُنْكِحُوا ابْنتَهُمْ علىّ بنَ أبى طالبٍ، فَلَا إِذنَ، ثُمَّ، لَا إِذنَ، ثُمَّ لَا إِذْنَ، إِلَّا أنْ يُرِيد ابن أَبى طالب أن يُطَلِّق ابْنَتى، وينكحَ ابْنَتَهُم، فإِنما هى بُضْعَةٌ منِّى، يُريبُنى مَا أرابَها ويؤْذينى ما آذَاها".  

[حم] أحمد في، [م] مسلم [د] أبو داود [ت] الترمذي [هـ] ابن ماجة عن المسور بن مخرمة