that he married a woman from Banu Jusham, and they said: “May you live in harmony and have many sons.” He said: “Do not say that, rather say what the Messenger of Allah said: 'Allahumma barik lahum wa barik ʿalaihim (O Allah, bless them and bestow blessings upon them).' ”
أَنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ بَنِي جُشَمٍ فَقَالُوا بِالرِّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينَ فَقَالَ لاَ تَقُولُوا هَكَذَا وَلَكِنْ قُولُوا كَمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لَهُمْ وَبَارِكْ عَلَيْهِمْ
[Machine] "He married a woman from the Banu Jusham tribe. It was said to him, 'May you have blessings and children.' He said, 'Do not say that, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ forbade us from saying that. He commanded us to say, 'May Allah bless you and bless (your marriage/aspects of your life).'
أَنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ بَنِي جُشَمٍ فَقِيلَ لَهُ بِالرِّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينَ قَالَ لَا تَقُولُوا ذَلِكَ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى عَنْ ذَلِكَ وَأَمَرَنَا أَنْ نَقُولَ «بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ»
"عَنْ عَقِيلِ بْنِ أَبِى طَالِبٍ أنَّهُ تَزَوَّجَ فَقِيلَ لَهُ بِالرَّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينَ، قَالَ: لَا تَقُولُوا هكَذَا، وَلَكِنْ قُولُوا كَمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ الله ﷺ عَلَى الْخَيْر وَالبَرَكَة، بَارَكَ الله لَكَ، وبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ".