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ibnmajah:1684Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > ʿUbaydullāh > al-Qāsim > ʿĀʾishah

“The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss when he was fasting, and who among you can control his desire as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to control his desire?”  

ابن ماجة:١٦٨٤حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ؟  


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muslim:1106cAbū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAlī b. Mushir > ʿUbaydullāh b. ʿUmar > al-Qāsim > ʿĀʾishah

Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss me while observing fast; and who among you can control his desire as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ could control his desire.  

مسلم:١١٠٦cحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُنِي وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

muslim:1106d[Chain 1] Yaḥyá b. Yaḥyá And ʾAbū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah Waʾabū Kurayb > Yaḥyá > al-Ākharān > Abū Muʿāwiyah > al-Aʿmash > Ibrāhīm > al-Aswad Waʿalqamah > ʿĀʾishah [Chain 2] Shujāʿ b. Makhlad > Yaḥyá b. Abū Zāʾidah > al-Aʿmash > Muslim > Masrūq > ʿĀʾishah

Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss (his wives) while fasting and embraced (them) while fasting; but he had the greatest mastery over his desire among you.  

مسلم:١١٠٦dحَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ يَحْيَى وَأَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ وَأَبُو كُرَيْبٍ قَالَ يَحْيَى أَخْبَرَنَا وَقَالَ الآخَرَانِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ وَعَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا شُجَاعُ بْنُ مَخْلَدٍ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي زَائِدَةَ حَدَّثَنَا الأَعْمَشُ عَنْ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ أَمْلَكُكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ  

muslim:1106eʿAlī b. Ḥujr And Zuhayr b. Ḥarb > Sufyān > Manṣūr > Ibrāhīm > ʿAlqamah > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss (his wives) while fasting; and he had the greatest control over his desire (as compared with you).  

مسلم:١١٠٦eحَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ حُجْرٍ وَزُهَيْرُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ كَانَ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ  

abudawud:2382Musaddad > Abū Muʿāwiyah > al-Aʿmash > Ibrāhīm > al-Aswad And ʿAlqamah > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire.  

أبو داود:٢٣٨٢حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ وَعَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَ لإِرْبِهِ  

abudawud:273ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

'Aishah said; The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) would ask us in the beginning of our menstruation to tie the waist-wrapper. Then he would embrace us. And who amongst you can have as much control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) had over his desire?  

أبو داود:٢٧٣حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَأْمُرُنَا فِي فَوْحِ حَيْضِنَا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرُنَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ  

tirmidhi:729Hannād > Abū Muʿāwiyah > al-Aʿmash > Ibrāhīm > ʿAlqamah And al-Aswad > ʿĀʾishah

"The Messenger of Allah would kiss and fondle while he was fasting, and he had the most control among you of his limbs."  

الترمذي:٧٢٩حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادٌ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ وَالأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ  

قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَأَبُو مَيْسَرَةَ اسْمُهُ عَمْرُو بْنُ شُرَحْبِيلَ وَمَعْنَى لإِرْبِهِ لِنَفْسِهِ
ahmad:24154Abū Muʿāwiyah > al-Aʿmash > Ibrāhīm > ʿAlqamah And al-Aswad > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2382)  

أحمد:٢٤١٥٤حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ حَدَّثَنَا الْأَعْمَشُ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ وَالْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لِإِرْبِهِ  

ahmad:25230Hāshim > Isrāʾīl > Jābir > ʿĀmir > Masrūqʿan ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2382)   

أحمد:٢٥٢٣٠حَدَّثَنَا هَاشِمٌ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْرَائِيلُ عَنْ جَابِرٍ عَنْ عَامِرٍ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍعَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لِأَرَبِهِ  

ahmad:24668Muḥammad b. Abū ʿAdī > Ḥumayd > Bakr

[Machine] Aisha, the wife of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, said, "He used to kiss while he was fasting. Which one of you has the strength to control himself more than the Messenger of Allah ﷺ?"  

أحمد:٢٤٦٦٨حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي عَدِيٍّ عَنْ حُمَيْدٍ عَنْ بَكْرٍ قَالَ قَالَتْ

عَائِشَةُ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَأَيُّكُمْ أَمْلَكُ لِإِرْبِهِ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ؟  

hakim:614ʿAlī b. ʿĪsá > Musaddad b. Qaṭan > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > al-Shaybānī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Aswad from his father > ʿĀʾishah

'Aishah said; The Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) would ask us in the beginning of our menstruation to tie the waist-wrapper. Then he would embrace us. And who amongst you can have as much control over his desire as the Messenger of Allah (May peace be upon him) had over his desire? (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 273)  

الحاكم:٦١٤حَدَّثَنِي عَلِيُّ بْنُ عِيسَى ثنا مُسَدَّدُ بْنُ قَطَنٍ عَنْ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا جَرِيرٌ عَنِ الشَّيْبَانِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «يَأْمُرُنَا فِي فَوْرِ حَيْضَتِنَا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُبَاشِرَنَا وَأَيُّكُمْ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ كَمَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَمْلِكُ إِرْبَهُ؟»  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ عَلَى شَرْطِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ بِهَذَا اللَّفْظِ إِنَّمَا أَخْرَجَا فِي هَذَا الْبَابِ» حَدِيثَ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنِ الْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ «كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَأْمُرُ إِحْدَانَا إِذَا كَانَتْ حَائِضًا أَنْ نَتَّزِرَ ثُمَّ يُضَاجِعُنَا» على شرطهما

ذِكْرُ الْخَبَرِ الدَّالِّ عَلَى أَنَّ هَذَا الْفِعْلَ مُبَاحٌ لِمَنْ مَلَكَ إِرْبَهُ، وَأَمِنَ مَا يَكْرَهُ مِنْ مُتَعَقَّبِهِ

ibnhibban:3543Aḥmad b. ʿAbdullāh al-Fandawarī Biḥarrān > al-Nufaylī > Zuhayr b. Muʿāwiyah > ʿUbaydullāh b. ʿUmar > al-Qāsim b. Muḥammad > ʿĀʾishah

“The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss when he was fasting, and who among you can control his desire as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to control his desire?” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1684)   

ابن حبّان:٣٥٤٣أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْفَنْدَوَرِيُّ بِحَرَّانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا النُّفَيْلِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

«كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ» وَتَقُولُ «أَيُّكُمْ أَمْلَكُ لِإِرْبِهِ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ»  

nasai-kubra:3068Muʿāwiyah b. Ṣāliḥ > Yaḥyá b. Maʿīn > Ibn Abū Zāʾidah > al-Aʿmash > Muslim > Masrūq > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2382)   

الكبرى للنسائي:٣٠٦٨أَخْبَرَنَا مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى بْنُ مَعِينٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ أَبِي زَائِدَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْأَعْمَشُ عَنْ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنْ كَانَ أَمْلَكَ لِإِرْبِهِ»  

nasai-kubra:3072Muḥammad b. Manṣūr > al-Jawwāz from Ahl Makkah > Sufyān > Manṣūr > Ibrāhīm > ʿAlqamah > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2382)   

الكبرى للنسائي:٣٠٧٢أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ هُوَ الجَوَّازُ مِنْ أَهْلِ مَكَّةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لِإِرْبِهِ»  

nasai-kubra:3088ʿAbdullāh b. Muḥammad And Yuʿraf Bi-al-Ḍḍaʿīf > Abū Muʿāwiyah > al-Aʿmash > Ibrāhīm > ʿAlqamah Wa-al-Aswad > ʿĀʾishah

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2382)  

الكبرى للنسائي:٣٠٨٨أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ وَيُعْرَفُ بِالضَّعِيفِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْأَعْمَشُ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ وَالْأَسْوَدِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَ لِإِرْبِهِ مِنْكُمْ»