[Machine] I entered upon Qaradah ibn Ka'b and Abu Mas'ud Al-Ansari in a wedding, and I heard female singers. So I said, "You are companions of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and the people of Badr, and you allow this to happen among you?" They said, "If you wish, stay with us, and if you wish, go, for it has been permitted for us to engage in conversation at weddings and to cry at times of calamity." Sharik said, "I saw him (i.e., the Prophet) saying this without any prohibition."
دَخَلْتُ عَلَى قَرَظَةَ بْنِ كَعْبٍ وَأَبِي مَسْعُودٍ الْأَنْصَارِيِّ فِي عُرْسٍ وَإِذَا جَوَارٍ يُغَنِّينَ فَقُلْتُ أَنْتُمْ أَصْحَابُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَأَهْلُ بَدْرٍ يُفْعَلُ هَذَا عِنْدَكُمْ؟ فَقَالَا إِنْ شِئْتَ فَأَقِمْ مَعَنَا وَإِنْ شِئْتَ فَاذْهَبْ فَإِنَّهُ رَخَّصَ لَنَا فِي اللَّهْوِ عِنْدَ الْعُرْسِ وَفِي الْبُكَاءِ عِنْدَ الْمُصِيبَةِ قَالَ شَرِيكٌ أُرَاهُ قَالَ فِي غَيْرِ نَوْحٍ سكت عنه الذهبي في التلخيص