31. Book of Dutifulness and Ties of Kinship (3/3)
٣١۔ كِتَابُ الْبِرِّ وَالصِّلَةِ ص ٣
[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ used to slaughter sheep and then distribute them among Khadijah bint Khuwaylid's friends.
«أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ كَانَ يَذْبَحُ الشَّاةَ فَيَتَتَبَّعُ بِهَا صَدَائِقَ خَدِيجَةَ بِنْتِ خُوَيْلِدٍ
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Were it not for Bani Israel, meat would not decay; and were it not for Eve, no woman would ever betray her husband." (Using translation from Bukhārī 3399)
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَوْلَا بَنُو إِسْرَائِيلَ لَمْ يَخْنَزِ اللَّحْمُ وَلَوْلَا حَوَّاءُ لَمْ تَخُنْ أُنْثَى زَوْجَهَا»
[Machine] From the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: "Do not ask a man why he strikes his wife, and do not ask him who supports him among his brothers, and do not rely on them, and do not sleep except on a mattress."
عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا تَسْأَلِ الرَّجُلَ فِيمَ يَضْرِبُ امْرَأَتَهُ وَلَا تَسْأَلْهُ عَمَنْ يعْتَمِدُ مِنْ إِخْوَانِهِ وَلَا يَعْتَمِدُهُمْ وَلَا تَنَمْ إِلَّا عَلَى وِتْرٍ»
[Machine] A man from the Arabs used to cover up Abu Bakr, known as Ufair. Abu Bakr said to him, "O Ufair, did you not hear from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ anything regarding love?" He said, "I heard him say, 'Love is inherited and hatred is inherited.'"
أَنَّ رَجُلًا مِنَ الْعَرَبِ كَانَ يَغْشَى أَبَا بَكْرٍ يُقَالُ لَهُ عُفَيْرٌ فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ يَا عُفَيْرُ مَا سَمِعْتَ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ فِي الْوُدِّ؟ قَالَ سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ «الْوُدِّ يَتَوَارَثُ وَالْبُغْضُ يَتَوَارَثُ»
[Machine] Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq met a man from the Arabs named 'Ufair. Abu Bakr said to him, "Have you not heard anything from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ about friendship?" He replied, "I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, 'Friendship and enmity are inherited.'" Yusuf bin 'Atiyyah perished.
لَقِيَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ الصِّدِّيقُ رَجُلًا مِنَ الْعَرَبِ يُقَالُ لَهُ عُفَيْرٌ فَقَالَ لَهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ مَا سَمِعْتَ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ فِي الْوُدِّ؟ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ الْوُدَّ وَالْعَدَاوَةَ يَتَوَارَثَانِ» يوسف بن عطية هالك
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Shall I not guide you towards a charity or one of the greatest charities? It is your daughter, who will be a source of reward for you, and no one else will earn except you."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «أَلَا أَدُلُّكَ عَلَى الصَّدَقَةِ أَوْ مِنْ أَعْظَمِ الصَّدَقَةِ ابْنَتُكَ مَرْدُودَةٌ عَلَيْكَ لَيْسَ لَهَا كَاسِبٌ غَيْرُكَ»
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Whoever has three daughters and remains patient with their upbringing and sustenance, Allah will admit him to Paradise through His mercy." A man then asked: "O Messenger of Allah, what if he has two daughters?" The Prophet replied: "Even if he has two." Another man asked: "O Messenger of Allah, and if he has only one daughter?" The Prophet said: "Even if he has only one."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ فَصَبَرَ عَلَى لَأْوَائِهِنَّ وَضَرَّائِهِنَّ أَدْخَلَهُ اللَّهُ الْجَنَّةَ بِرَحْمَتِهِ إِيَّاهُنَّ» قَالَ فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ وَابْنَتَانِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ؟ قَالَ «وَإِنِ ابْنَتَانِ» قَالَ رَجُلٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَوَاحِدَةٌ؟ قَالَ «وَوَاحِدَةٌ»
[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ passed by some of his companions and a young boy between the sides of the road. When his mother saw the animals, she feared for her son to be trampled, so she hurried and called out, "My son! My son!" She carried her son and the people said, "O Prophet of Allah, she was not throwing her son into the fire." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "No, by Allah, Allah does not throw His beloved into the fire." The Prophet of Allah ﷺ then reproached them.
مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ بِأُنَاسٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ وَصَبِيٌّ بَيْنَ ظَهْرَانَيِ الطَّرِيقِ فَلَمَّا رَأَتْ أُمُّهُ الدَّوَابَّ خَشِيتَ عَلَى ابْنِهَا أَنْ يُوطَأَ فَسَعَتْ وَالِهَةً فَقَالَتِ ابْنِي ابْنِي فَاحْتَمَلَتِ ابْنَهَا فَقَالَ الْقَوْمُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ مَا كَانَتْ هَذِهِ لِتُلْقِيَ ابْنَهَا فِي النَّارِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا وَاللَّهِ لَا يُلْقِي اللَّهُ حَبِيبَهُ فِي النَّارِ» قَالَ فَخَصَمَهُمْ نَبِيُّ اللَّهُ ﷺ
The Prophet ﷺ said: If anyone has a female child, and does not bury her alive, or slight her, or prefer his children (i.e. the male ones) to her, Allah will bring him into Paradise. Uthman did not mention "male children". (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 5146)
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «مَنْ وُلِدَتْ لَهُ أُنْثَى فَلَمْ يَئِدْهَا وَلَمْ يَنْهَهَا وَلَمْ يُؤْثِرْ وَلَدَهُ يَعْنِي الذَّكَرَ عَلَيْهَا أَدْخَلَهُ اللَّهُ بِهَا الْجَنَّةَ»
[Machine] A woman came to Aisha asking for something and she had with her two young boys. So she gave her three dates and gave each of the boys a date, while she kept one date for herself. The boys then ate the two dates and she split her date in half and gave each boy half a date. Then, the Prophet ﷺ came and she informed him about what happened. He said, "What impresses you about her? Surely, Allah has shown mercy to her through the mercy of her children."
جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ تَسْأَلُ وَمَعَهَا صِبْيَانٌ فَأَعْطَتْهَا ثَلَاثَ تَمْرَاتٍ فَأَعْطَتْ كُلَّ صَبِيٍّ تَمْرَةً تَمْرَةً وَأَمْسَكَتْ لِنَفْسِهَا تَمْرَةً فَأَكَلَ الصِّبْيَانُ التَّمْرَتَيْنِ فَعَمَدَتْ إِلَى التَّمْرَةِ فَشَقَّتْهَا نِصْفَيْنِ فَأَعْطَتْ كُلَّ صَبِيٍّ لَهَا نِصْفَ تَمْرَةٍ فَجَاءَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ فَقَالَ «وَمَا يُعْجِبُكَ مِنْهَا لَقَدْ رَحِمَهَا اللَّهُ بِرَحْمَتِهَا صَبِيِّهَا»
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Whoever raises two daughters until they reach maturity, he and I will enter Paradise like these two," and he pointed with his index finger and middle finger. And there are two swiftly moving gates of punishment in this world: injustice and disobedience."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «مَنْ عَالَ جَارِيَتَيْنِ حَتَّى تُدْرِكَا دَخَلْتُ الْجَنَّةَ أَنَا وَهُوَ كَهَاتَيْنِ وَأَشَارَ بِإِصْبَعَيْهِ السَّبَّابَةِ وَالْوسْطَى وَبَابَانِ مُعَجَّلَانِ عُقُوبَتُهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا الْبَغْيُ وَالْعُقُوقُ»
[Machine] "Zaid asked Abu Saad, 'Where did you come from?' He replied, 'I came from the Amir of the city, who shared a hadith with me.' Abu Saad then narrated the hadith to the people, saying, 'I heard Ibn Abbas saying that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'Any Muslim who has two daughters and treats them well, they will be a cause for him to enter Paradise.'"
لَهُ زَيْدٌ مِنْ أَيْنَ جِئْتَ يَا أَبَا سَعْدٍ؟ قَالَ مِنْ عِنْدَ أَمِيرِ الْمَدِينَةِ حَدَّثَتْهُ بِحَدِيثٍ قَالَ فَحَدِّثْ بِهِ الْقَوْمَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ يَقُولُ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «مَا مِنْ مُسْلِمٍ تُدْرَكُ لَهُ ابْنَتَانِ فَيُحْسِنُ إِلَيْهِمَا مَا صَحِبَتَاهُ أَوْ صَحِبَهُمَا إِلَّا أَدْخَلَتَاهُ الْجَنَّةَ»
[Machine] About the Prophet ﷺ , this is a rumor. Indeed, Shurahbil is Abu Saad, Shurahbil ibn Saad, a respected person from the people of Madinah, Shurahbil ibn Saad.
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ هَذَا وَهْمٌ فَإِنَّ شُرَحْبِيلَ هَذَا هُوَ أَبُو سَعْدٍ شُرَحْبِيلُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ شَيْخٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ الْمَدِينَةِ شرحبيل بن سعد واه
The Prophet ﷺ said: Those who do not show mercy to our young ones and do not realise the right of our elders are not from us. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 4943)
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «مَنْ لَمْ يَرْحَمْ صَغِيرَنَا وَيَعْرِفْ حَقَّ كَبِيرِنَا فَلَيْسَ مِنَّا»