NASAI-KUBRA 10155:
from Abū Hurayrah —
[Machine] I heard the Prophet ﷺ and Nasr bin Ali bin Nasr informed us that Abdul A'la narrated to us from Ma'mar, from Az-Zuhri, from Humaid bin Abdul Rahman, from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet ﷺ said, "The strong person is not the one who can wrestle others. Rather, the strong person is the one who can control himself when he is angry."
الكبرى للنسائي ١٠١٥٥:
عن ابو هريره —
سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ وَأَخْبَرَنَا نَصْرُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ نَصْرٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ «لَيْسَ الشَّدِيدُ بِالصُّرَعَةِ» قَالُوا فَمَا الشَّدِيدُ؟ قَالَ «الَّذِي يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ عِنْدَ الْغَضَبِ»
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