My father died and left seven or nine girls and I married a matron. Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, "O Jabir! Have you married?" I said, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "A matron." he said, "Why not a virgin, so that you might play with her and she with you, and you might amuse her and she amuse you." I said, " ʿAbdullah (my father) died and left girls, and I dislike to marry a girl like them, so I married a lady (matron) so that she may look after them." On that he said, "May Allah bless you," or "That is good."  

هَلَكَ أَبِي وَتَرَكَ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ فَتَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً ثَيِّبًا فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ فَقُلْتُ نَعَمْ فَقَالَ بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا قُلْتُ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ فَهَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ وَتُضَاحِكُهَا وَتُضَاحِكُكَ قَالَ فَقُلْتُ لَهُ إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ هَلَكَ وَتَرَكَ بَنَاتٍ وَإِنِّي كَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجِيئَهُنَّ بِمِثْلِهِنَّ فَتَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً تَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ وَتُصْلِحُهُنَّ فَقَالَ بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ أَوْ قَالَ خَيْرًا  

[Machine] "That his father died and left behind nine daughters or seven daughters. So I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he asked me, 'Did you get married, O Jabir?' I said, 'Yes.' He asked, 'A virgin or a previously married?' I said, 'Rather previously married.' He said, 'So why don't you marry a young girl who will play with you, and you will play with her, and she will make you laugh, and you will make her laugh?' So I said, 'Indeed, Abdullah died and left behind nine daughters or seven daughters, and I dislike marrying them to someone like themselves, and I want a woman who can take care of them.' He said to me, 'May Allah bless you.'"  

أَنَّ أَبَاهُ هَلَكَ وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ قَالَ فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ لِي «تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟ » قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ « بِكْرًا أَوْ ثَيِّبًا؟ » قُلْتُ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ «فَهَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ وَتُضَاحِكُهَا وَتُضَاحِكُكَ» فَقُلْتُ إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ مَاتَ وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ وَإِنِّي كَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجِيئَهُنَّ بِمِثْلِهِنَّ وَأَرَدْتُ امْرَأَةً تَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ فَقَالَ لِي «بَارِكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ»  

"عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ: هَلَكَ أَبِى وَتَرَكَ سَبع بَنَات أوْ تِسْعًا، فَتَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً ثَيِّبًا، فَقَالَ لى رَسُولُ الله ﷺ : تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟ قُلتُ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيبًا؟ قُلتُ: ثَيِّبًا، قَالَ: فَهَلاًّ جَارِيَة تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ؟ ! أوْ قَالَ: تُضَاجِعُهَا وَتُضَاجِعُكَ؟ ! فَقُلتُ: إِنَّ أَبِى مَاتَ وَتَرَكَ تِسع بَنَات أَوْ سَبْعًا، وَإنِّى كَرِهْتُ أنْ أَجِيئَهُنَّ بِمِثْلِهِنَّ، فَقَالَ: أحْسَنْتَ بَارَكَ الله فِيكَ، وَقَالَ لِى خِيْرًا".