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tabarani:12838Yūsuf al-Qāḍī > Sulaymān b. Ḥarb > Ḥammād b. Salamah > ʿAmmār b. Abū ʿAmmār > Ibn ʿAbbās Fīmā Yaḥsab Abū Salamah

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , mentioned Khadijah bint Khuwaylid, and her father wanted to marry her off. So she prepared food and drink and invited her father and people from the Quraysh tribe to eat and drink. Khadijah said to her father, "Muhammad bin Abdullah is proposing to me, so stand up and marry him." She married him to her, and she made him wear a robe, like they used to do with fathers when they marry off their daughters. When the intoxication subsided, he looked and found himself formed and wearing a robe. He said, "What is the matter with me?" She said, "I married you to Muhammad." He said, "I have married you, an orphan of Abu Talib, by my life." Khadijah said, "Are you not ashamed? Do you want to degrade yourself and tell the people and the Quraysh that you were drunk and stayed with him until you agreed?"  

الطبراني:١٢٨٣٨حَدَّثَنَا يُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمَّارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا يَحْسَبُ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ بِنْتَ خُوَيْلِدٍ وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ فَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا وَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَأُنَاسًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ لِأَبِيهَا إِنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ يَخْطُبُنِي قُمْ فَزَوِّجْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ فَخَلَفَتْهُ وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً وَكَذَلِكَ كَانُوا يَفْعَلُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ إِذَا زَوَّجُوا بَنَاتِهِمْ فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ السُّكْرُ نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ وَعَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ فَقَالَ مَا شَأْنِي؟ فَقَالَتْ زَوَّجْتَنِي مِنْ مُحَمَّدٍ فَقَالَ أَنَا زَوَّجْتُكِ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لَا لَعَمْرِي فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ أَمَا تَسْتَحِي أَتُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ تُخْبِرُ قُرَيْشًا وَالنَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانًا فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى رَضِيَ  


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ahmad:2849Abū Kāmil > Ḥammād b. Salamah > ʿAmmār b. Abiá ʿAmmār > Ibn ʿAbbās Fīmā Yaḥsab Ḥammād

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah mentioned Khadijah, and her father wanted to marry her off, so she prepared food and drink. She invited her father and some people from the Quraysh tribe, and they ate and drank until they became intoxicated. Khadijah said to her father, "Muhammad ibn Abdullah has proposed to me, so marry me to him." Her father married her off to him. She beautified him and dressed him in fine clothes, as was the custom with fathers. When his intoxication wore off, he looked and found himself well-dressed. He said, "What is this?" She replied, "Muhammad ibn Abdullah has married me to him." He said, "I am marrying the orphan of my father, not by my own age." Khadijah said, "Are you not ashamed? Do you want to disgrace yourself in front of the Quraysh? To inform people that you were drunk?" He did not leave her until he was pleased.  

أحمد:٢٨٤٩حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كَامِلٍ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِى عَمَّارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا يَحْسَبُ حَمَّادٌ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ فَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا فَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَنَفَرًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا حَتَّى ثَمِلُوا فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ لِأَبِيهَا إِنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ يَخْطُبُنِي فَزَوِّجْنِي إِيَّاهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ فخلَّقَتْهُ وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً وَكَذَلِكَ كَانُوا يَفْعَلُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ سُكْرُهُ نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ وَعَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ فَقَالَ مَا شَأْنِي مَا هَذَا؟ قَالَتْزَوَّجْتَنِي مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ أَنَا أُزَوِّجُ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لَا لَعَمْرِي فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ أَمَا تَسْتَحِي تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ عِنْدَ قُرَيْشٍ؟ تُخْبِرُ النَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانَ؟ فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى رَضِيَ  

bayhaqi:13746Abū al-Ḥasan b. ʿAbdān > Aḥmad b. ʿUbayd > ʿAyyāsh al-Sukkarī > Ibrāhīm b. al-Ḥajjāj > Ḥammād > ʿAmmār b. Abū ʿAmmār > Ibn ʿAbbās Fīmā Yaḥsib Ḥammād > Rasūl

[Machine] Allah ﷺ mentioned Khadija bint Khuwaylid and her father's reluctance to marry her off, so she prepared food and drinks and invited her father and some people from the Quraysh. They ate and drank until they were intoxicated. Then Khadija said to her father, "Indeed, Muhammad has proposed to me, so marry him to me." And she married him to her. She adorned him and dressed him in fine clothes. They used to do this with the fathers when they got their daughters married. When he became sober, he looked and saw that he was in fine attire, so he said, "What is the matter with me?" She said, "You have married me to Muhammad ibn Abdullah." He said, "Am I marrying the orphan of my uncle?" She said, "No, by my life." Then Khadija said, "Aren't you ashamed? Do you want to humiliate yourself in front of the Quraysh and tell the people that you were intoxicated and did not depart from it until you agreed?"  

البيهقي:١٣٧٤٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ بْنُ عَبْدَانَ أنبأ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ ثنا عَيَّاشٌ السُّكَّرِيُّ ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ الْحَجَّاجِ ثنا حَمَّادٌ عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمَّارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ ؓ فِيمَا يَحْسِبُ حَمَّادٌ أَنَّ رَسُولَ

اللهِ ﷺ ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ بِنْتَ خُوَيْلِدٍ وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ عَنْ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ فَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا فَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَنَفَرًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا حَتَّى ثَمِلُوا فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ ؓ لِأَبِيهَا إِنَّ مُحَمَّدًا يَخْطُبُنِي فَزَوِّجْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ فَخَلَّقَتْهُ وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً وَكَانُوا يَصْنَعُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ إِذَا زَوَّجُوا بَنَاتَهُمْ فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ السُّكْرُ نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ عَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ فَقَالَ مَا شَأْنِي؟ قَالَتْ زَوَّجْتَنِي مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ فَقَالَ أَنَا أُزَوِّجُ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ؟ فَقَالَ لَا لَعَمْرِي فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ أَمَا تَسْتَحِي تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ عِنْدَ قُرَيْشٍ تُخْبِرُ النَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانَ فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى أَقَرَّ