TABARANI 3476:
from Ḍirghāmah b. ʿUlaybah b. Ḥarmalah from my father from his father —
[Machine] "I traveled with the delegation of the neighborhood to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . He led us in the morning prayer. When he finished, I turned to look at the face of the one next to me, but I could hardly recognize him due to the darkness. So I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, advise me.' He said, 'Fear Allah, even if you are in a group of people who say things to please you. And if you hear them saying things that you dislike, leave them be.'"
الطبراني ٣٤٧٦:
عن ضرgهامه بن عليبه بن حرمله عن أبي عن أبيه —
انْطَلَقْتُ فِي وَفْدِ الْحَيِّ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَصَلَّى بِنَا صَلَاةَ الصُّبْحِ فَلَمَّا سَلَّمَ جَعَلْتُ أَنْظُرُ إِلَى وَجْهِ الَّذِي إِلَى جَنْبِي فَمَا أَكَادُ أَنْ أَعْرِفَهُ مِنَ الْغَلَسِ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَوْصِنِي قَالَ «اتَّقِ اللهَ وَإِنْ كُنْتَ فِي الْقَوْمِ فَسَمِعْتَهُمْ يَقُولُونَ لَكَ مَا يُعْجِبُكَ فَائْتِهِ وَإِنْ سَمِعْتَهُمْ يَقُولُونَ لَكَ مَا تَكْرَهُ فَدَعْهُ»
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