HAKIM 2750:
from Abū Balj Yaḥyá b. Sulaym —
[Machine] I said to Muhammad bin Hatib, "I married two women, and there was no sound in either of them," meaning the sound of a drum. So Muhammad said, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The distinction between what is permissible and what is forbidden is the sound of the drum."
الحاكم ٢٧٥٠:
عن ابو بلج يحيى بن سليم —
قُلْتُ لِمُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ مَا كَانَ فِي وَاحِدَةٍ مِنْهُمَا صَوْتٌ يَعْنِي دُفًّا فَقَالَ مُحَمَّدٌ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «فَصْلُ مَا بَيْنَ الْحَلَالِ وَالْحَرَامِ الصَّوْتُ بِالدُّفِّ»
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