12. Book of Divorce

١٢۔ كِتَابُ الطَّلَاقِ

12.4 [Machine] What is permissible for a woman to do for her husband who divorced her, so that her divorce is final?

١٢۔٤ بَابُ مَا يُحِلُّ الْمَرْأَةَ لِزَوْجِهَا الَّذِي طَلَّقَهَا فَبَتَّ طَلَاقَهَا

darimi:2313Muḥammad b. Yūsuf > Ibn ʿUyaynah > al-Zuhrī > ʿUrwah b. al-Zubayr > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] The woman of Rifaa'a al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and with him were Abu Bakr and Khalid ibn Sa'id ibn al-'As, waiting at the door to be permitted to enter to see the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . The woman said, "O Messenger of Allah, I was with Rifaa'a and he divorced me, and now my 'Iddah (waiting period) is complete." He said, "Do you want to go back to Rifaa'a? No, not until he has sexual intercourse with you and you have tasted his semen, and he has tasted yours." Khalid ibn Sa'id called out to Abu Bakr, "Don't you see what she is saying loudly? This is in front of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ !"  

الدارمي:٢٣١٣أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنْ الزُّهْرِيِّ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عُرْوَةَ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةُ رِفَاعَةَ الْقُرَظِيِّ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَعِنْدَهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ وَخَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْعَاصِ عَلَى الْبَابِ يَنْتَظِرُ أَنْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رِفَاعَةَ فَطَلَّقَنِي فَبَتَّ طَلَاقِي قَالَ «أَتُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ؟ لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ» فَنَادَى خَالِدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ أَبَا بَكْرٍ أَلَا تَرَى مَا تَجْهَرُ بِهِ؟ هَذِهِ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ؟  

darimi:2314Farwah b. Abū al-Maghrāʾ > ʿAlī b. Mushir > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

"The wife of Rifa'ah Al-Qurazi came to the Messenger of Allah and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I got married to 'Abdur-Rahman bin Az-Zabir, and what he has is like this fringe.' The Messenger of Allah said: 'Perhaps you want to go back to Rifa'ah? No, not until he ('Abdur-Rahman) tastes your sweetness and you taste his sweetness.'" (Using translation from Nasāʾī 3408)   

الدارمي:٢٣١٤حَدَّثَنَا فَرْوَةُ بْنُ أَبِي الْمَغْرَاءِ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

طَلَّقَ رِفَاعَةُ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي قُرَيْظَةَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ فَدَخَلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَاللَّهِ إِنْ مَعَهُ إِلَّا مِثْلُ هُدْبَتِي هَذِهِ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لَعَلَّكِ تُرِيدِينَ أَنْ تَرْجِعِي إِلَى رِفَاعَةَ لَا حَتَّى يَذُوقَ عُسَيْلَتَكِ أَوْ قَالَ تَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ