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bukhari:6632Yaḥyá b. Sulaymān > Ibn Wahb > Ḥaywah > Abū ʿAqīl Zuhrah b. Maʿbad > Jaddah ʿAbdullāh b. Hishām

We were with the Prophet ﷺ and he was holding the hand of ʿUmar bin Al-Khattab. ʿUmar said to Him, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet ﷺ said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then ʿUmar said to him, "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Now, O ʿUmar, (now you are a believer).  

البخاري:٦٦٣٢حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ وَهْبٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي حَيْوَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو عَقِيلٍ زُهْرَةُ بْنُ مَعْبَدٍ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ جَدَّهُ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ هِشَامٍ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ وَهْوَ آخِذٌ بِيَدِ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لأَنْتَ أَحَبُّ إِلَىَّ مِنْ كُلِّ شَىْءٍ إِلاَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ لاَ وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَحَبَّ إِلَيْكَ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ فَقَالَ لَهُ عُمَرُ فَإِنَّهُ الآنَ وَاللَّهِ لأَنْتَ أَحَبُّ إِلَىَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ الآنَ يَا عُمَرُ  


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ahmad:18047Qutaybah b. Saʿīd > Ibn Lahīʿah > Zuhrah b. Maʿbad from his father

We were with the Prophet ﷺ while he was holding ʿUmar bin Al-Khattab by the hand. (Using translation from Bukhārī 3694)  

أحمد:١٨٠٤٧حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ عَنْ زُهْرَةَ بْنِ مَعْبَدٍ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ وَهُوَ آخِذٌ بِيَدِ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ فَقَالَ وَاللهِ لَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا نَفْسِي فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ لَا يُؤْمِنُ أَحَدُكُمْ حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَحَبَّ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ فَلَأَنْتَ الْآنَ وَاللهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الْآنَ يَا عُمَرُ  

ahmad:18961Qutaybah b. Saʿīd > Ibn Lahīʿah > Zuhrah b. Maʿbad from his father

We were with the Prophet ﷺ while he was holding ʿUmar bin Al-Khattab by the hand. (Using translation from Bukhārī 3694)  

أحمد:١٨٩٦١حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ عَنْ زُهْرَةَ بْنِ مَعْبَدٍ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ وَهُوَ آخِذٌ بِيَدِ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ فَقَالَ وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَأَنْتَ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا نَفْسِي فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَالَّذِي نَفْسِيبِيَدِهِ لَا يُؤْمِنُ أَحَدُكُمْ حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَحَبَّ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ نَفْسِهِ قَالَ عُمَرُ فَأَنْتَ الْآنَ وَاللهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الْآنَ يَا عُمَرُ  

ahmad:22503Ḥasan b. Mūsá > Ibn Lahīʿah > Zuhrah / Ibn Maʿbad b. ʿAbdullāh b. Hishām Abū ʿAqīl from his father

We were with the Prophet ﷺ and he was holding the hand of ʿUmar bin Al-Khattab. ʿUmar said to Him, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! You are dearer to me than everything except my own self." The Prophet ﷺ said, "No, by Him in Whose Hand my soul is, (you will not have complete faith) till I am dearer to you than your own self." Then ʿUmar said to him, "However, now, by Allah, you are dearer to me than my own self." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Now, O ʿUmar, (now you are a believer). (Using translation from Bukhārī 6632)  

أحمد:٢٢٥٠٣حَدَّثَنَا حَسَنُ بْنُ مُوسَى حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهْرَةُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ مَعْبَدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ أَبُو عَقِيلٍ عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ

كُنْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَهُوَ آخِذٌ بِيَدِ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَأَنْتَ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا نَفْسِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَحَبَّ إِلَيْكَ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ فَأَنْتَ الْآنَ وَاللهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيَّ مِنْ نَفْسِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الْآنَ يَا عُمَرُ  

suyuti:431-7bAbiá ʿAqīl from his father
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السيوطي:٤٣١-٧b

"عَنْ أَبِى عَقِيلٍ، عَنْ جَدَّهِ قَالَ: كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِىِّ ﷺ وَهُوَ آخِذٌ بِيَد عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ فَقَالَ: أَتُحِبُّنِى يَا عُمَرُ؟ قَالَ. لأَنْتَ (أَحَبُّ) إلَىَّ مِنْ كُلِّ شَىْءٍ إِلَّا نَفْسِى، فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِىُّ ﷺ : وَالَّذِي نَفْسِى بِيَدِهِ حَتَّى أكوُن أَحَبَّ إِلَيْكَ مِنْ نَفْسِكَ، فَقَالَ عُمرُ: فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ الله أَحَبُّ إلَىَّ مِنْ نَفْسِى، فَقَالَ النَّبِىُّ ﷺ : الآنَ يَا عُمَرُ".  

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