[Machine] Hind went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, indeed Abu Sufyan is a stingy man who does not spend on me or my children enough to suffice us. Shall I take from his wealth without his knowledge?" He replied, "Take what is sufficient for you and your children with kindness." In another narration by Anas bin Malik, he said, "He does not give me and my children enough except what I take from him secretly, and he does not know about it. Do I have any responsibility in that?" Then he mentioned it (the matter).
هِنْدُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَا يُنْفِقُ عَلَيَّ وَلَا عَلَى وَلَدِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لَا يَشْعُرُ؟ فَقَالَ خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَفِي رِوَايَةِ أَنَسِ بْنِ عَيَّاشٍ وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ سِرًّا وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ؟ ثُمَّ ذَكَرَهُ