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[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ said, "O Aisha, be gentle, for he who is gentle has never done anything wrong, and he who is not gentle has never done anything right."  

البيهقي:٢٠٧٩٦ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ فُورَكٍ أنبأ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الْأَصْبَهَانِيُّ ثنا يُونُسُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا شُعْبَةُ عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عَلَى جَمَلٍ فَجَعَلَتْ تَضْرِبُهُ فَقَالَ

النَّبِيُّ ﷺ يَا عَائِشَةُ عَلَيْكِ بِالرِّفْقِ فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِي شَيْءٍ إِلَّا زَانَهُ وَلَمْ يُنْزَعْ مِنْ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا شَانَهُ  

أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ مِنْ وَجْهَيْنِ آخَرَيْنِ عَنْ شُعْبَةَ

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السيوطي:٢٧٣٦٢a –

"يَا عَائِشَةُ: عَلَيْكِ بِتَقْوَى الله وَالرِّفْقِ، فَإِنَّ الرِّفْقَ لَمْ يَكُنْ فِى شَئٍ قَطُّ إِلَّا زَانَهُ وَلَا نُزعَ مِنْ شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلَّا شَانَهُ".  

[حم] أحمد [د] أبو داود وابن أبى الدنيا في ذم الغضب [حب] ابن حبّان والخرائطى في مكارم الأخلاق عن عائشة