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[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Women are to be commanded regarding their clothing." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, indeed they feel shy." He said, "The adult woman knows best about herself, and the virgin is to be commanded, and her silence is her consent."  

البيهقي:١٣٦٨١ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أنبأ أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ أَبِي جَعْفَرٍ أنبأ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ سُفْيَانَ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنْ أَبِي عَمْرٍو مَوْلَى عَائِشَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ تُسْتَأْمَرُ النِّسَاءُ فِي أَبْضَاعِهِنَّ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّهُنَّ يَسْتَحْيِينَ قَالَ الْأَيِّمُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا وَالْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ وَسُكَاتُهَا إِقْرَارُهَا  

رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ

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I asked the Prophet, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?" He said, "Yes." I said, "A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet." He said, "Her silence means her consent." (Using translation from Bukhārī 6946)   

البيهقي:١٣٧٠٤ – أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ أنبأ أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ الطَّبَرَانِيُّ ثنا ابْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ ثنا الْفِرْيَابِيُّ ح وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْقَاسِمِ ثنا ابْنُ كَيْسَانَ ثنا أَبُو حُذَيْفَةَ قَالَا ثنا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنْ أَبِي عُمَرَ وَمَوْلَى عَائِشَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ تُسْتَأْمَرُ النِّسَاءُ فِي أَبْضَاعِهِنَّ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قُلْتُ فَإِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحِي قَالَ تُسْتَأْمَرُ فَإِنْ سَكَتَتْ فَسُكُوتُهَا إِذْنُهَا  

رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنِ الْفِرْيَابِيِّ